Oh dear lord :|

Discussion in 'Postnatal Support' started by PixieKitty, Apr 6, 2009.

  1. PixieKitty

    PixieKitty Guest

    Tried to make our love more physical on Saturday night... OUCH! I had a c-section, why on earth is it so painful?! It felt like being a virgin again, I even tore a little at the entrance... we used lubrication, but it was just no good, I was nearly crying in pain and it totally took the mood.
    Will this ever go away? Or am I doomed to remain a mother of one with no sex life?
     
  2. xJG30

    xJG30 Tom & Mummy <3

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    I can't comment on the side of after a C - section but i waited a couple of months before i even attempted sex.. it hurt at first then was fine.

    I think they recommend to wait 6 weeks or more before getting down to it.
     
  3. chel27

    chel27 mum to 3

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    i had a c section to and had sex bout 4 weeks after and i felt like a virgin to lol everything was tight and didnt want to work lol it was also painfull, we tried again at 5 weeks and it was much better. xxx
     
  4. tasha41

    tasha41 Mum & Dad + 1

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    LOL I always have problems like this if I go awhile between.. 'sexual encounters'.. maybe hormonal changes affect it too?


    BTW, have not had sex since January and I won't until after my incision is healed (drainage is messy and I can't tend to my hair down there until the bandages are all off).. I'll let you know how it goes when our time comes :|
     

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