sorry be warned a bit of a rant! well basicllywe used to live in wolverhampton with my OH's family & his mum was great helping etc. but we decided to move down to london with my family (for space,jobs, housing etc) we have lived here for 7months & OH mum hasnt been to visit once, its only a 2hour drive! i know for a fact that my OH is hurt that she wont come down & to top it off OH sister is expecting a baby girl in march, & OH mum said to him 'at least then i will have a grandchild i will actually see' i just cant believe she said that, she is welcome to come here whenever she wants, shes got money, shes got a car, she can drive..so whats the problem?? my parents even took us there & we stayed at their house for the day while my parents went somewhere else to give OH's family a bit of alone time with her, so why cant she come here? me & OH just feel as though our daughter is being replaced just because they cant be bothered to come here for the day, she barely even rings to find out how she is. i just dont know what to do i feel so angry with her & upset that now were here she has no intrest with her first grandchild what would you do? should i text her or something & tell her that soon my OH prob wont let her back into our lives? & let her know how upset she has made us?