OH rarely ejaculates

[ace's girl]

Hi just thought i would post this and see if anyone else is going through the same thing. My boyfriend doesnt ejaculate during sex or anything else and hardly ever has. I have been with him two years and he has only done it three times. He was diognosed with hypospadias when he was a baby and had a operation to correct this but i think this is a mental issue for him as he believes that because he had a op things dont work.
Anyone else going through this and if so any advice ?
thanks x

 

[Crailly]

I don't really have any advice - but I am also in the same boat. We were going to start talking to a doctor last summer, but then we got engaged, and decided to focus on the wedding instead of TTC.

Since we are about 6 months from our honeymoon, I am now trying to get my fiance to see a doctor again.

It's not that he has never ejaculated, but I can count on one hand the number of times he has, and it takes a while.

 

[ace's girl]

Hi thanks for replying. I dont think my OH would see a doctor, he has kind of told himself that he will never have children and he has come to terms with that. so im going to come of the pill and just leave it up to nature lol but i kind of feel that if its ment to be it will happen. let me know how you get on if you do go to the doctor. good luck and thanks once again for replying x

 

[amym]

Hi ace's girl - can you search on ttc section for the thread 'delayed ejaculation' - can't work out how to put a link up. Think you'd find it interesting, and hopefully useful!

My OH and I were having regular sex for 10 months before he was able to ejaculate - now he rarely fails!

 

[Redfraggle]

Hi Ace's Girl

My husband has the same problem. His was also a mental block and he eventually went to see a doctor (two years after I first asked him too, so don't give up yet!)

We were referred for therapy which was partially successful. Now he can ejeculate every way but through intercourse so we are using instead cups to inseminate.

No matter how rare it is for him, if he does manage it sometimes then there has to be some hope for him.

Here if you want to talk about our experiance any more.