OH wouldn't give it up!

[Mervs Mum]

Hi Girls

Anyone else have/had this problem??

Yesterday morning DH and I had a minor disagreement which we resolved. I was especially keen to keep things on track as I was CD9 yesterday with other good signs that O is coming. When we went to bed I initiated BD and he was being all sensitive and having none of it

So now I want to be grumpy with him but thats not gonna help the situation either

What now?!?!

 

[suzan]

oh wow..!! hum, tie him up

Seriously.. um.. try to make things more romantic and get closer to him.. humm

 

[NeyNey]

Aww hunni, I think we've all been through this. Sometimes DH's can get to feeling like baby machines!!

Just try to relax a little, even for half a day, don't bring it up and leave it go. then perhaps late in the night try to get a little frisky, even suggest something experimental! You never know your luck!

 

[loopylew]

It's difficult isn't it, i think ttc puts added pressure on a relationship esp the sexual side of things, im sure my DH can't wait for us to pregnant so we stop having "timed" BD

 

[HAYS]

hehe get some more trashy underwear hun!!!!
or yep just tie him up and make him have it lol
xx

 

[justme00]

DH did that to me last month. We had a fight during my PEAK fertility too! I guess sometimes we need to realize they aren't baby machines like the others said. That's why I gave it up to DH even when I had low fertility this month. Just to show him its not all about the baby makin'.

 

[Mervs Mum]

Thanks Girls.

I's only our second cycle TTC and we dont really fight much but he's soooo sensitive - but I do love that about him too.

I'm thinking 'OMG what if I'm about to O and we've missed the boat!' but there's plenty of time yet and chances so I just need to be more patient...not my strongest quality....

I'm going to go in for some ego massaging this evening.......oh ye and I'll get the tags off that other set of cheap trashy undies Hay!

 

[poppy]

I am sure he will be back in fine fettle tonight!

 

[Wobbles]

My OH figured my cycle out in the end and fell asleep quickly Little shit!

Make up sex is good though Im sure thats what worked with Caitlin ha

 

[faith_may]

Aww hunni, I think we've all been through this. Sometimes DH's can get to feeling like baby machines!!

Just try to relax a little, even for half a day, don't bring it up and leave it go. then perhaps late in the night try to get a little frisky, even suggest something experimental! You never know your luck!

I agree with Ney

 

[dreamer]

I've heard only recently that when a couple have a falling out, it's usually the men who want to make up by having sex.......

 

[Mervs Mum]

Thanks girls!

Well DH is out at a meeting so I've just had a nice bath with my Philosophy Cinnamon Buns wash so I smell good enough to munch!

I asked my sister what she did in the same situation when TTC and she said 'I just told him....look you can carry on sulking later....get upstairs!'

Not sure that approach will work for my OH AT ALL......but it must have for them....they got pg on their first cycle....

Wish me luck!!!

 

[Mervs Mum]

......he's just come home and made me a mojito.....looking good....catch you all tomorrow ladeez....

 

[Tilly]

lol you know he wants to have sex when he's trying to get you pissed

Solution: Argue every night, have make up sex and woopdedoo!

 

[Iwantone!!!]

hehhe what u like good luck babe xx

 

[avistar]

yeah make up sex is supposed to be the best kind of sex! So maybe the fight will work in both your favors !

 

[Mervs Mum]

Bingo!

 

[loopylew]

i might be on track for "make up sex" at least then

 

[ladymilly]

he he.