OHs sister..

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Okay so yeaterday I told my OH babe lets go to the movies! And of course he says no. But then he asks his sister if she would like to go, she says yes, and then hea jumping up to go to the movies.not tje point but can you see where I'm going?
Okay so fast forward. Were in her truck and she says were going to a specofoc theater. The one oh and i go to is much less expebsive thab the one she goes to. The ticks are like twenty dollars each!
Well oh and i dont really have that kind of money, so he says dude that ones expensive. So shes like i dobt care are you coming or not.
So i almost said no im not coming, knowing we shouldn't waste that muxh money then he says yeah were coming.
And I'm like wtf dude. Any ways, I'm sitting in the back seat and the other two back seats are down because she has some stuff in there idk what. But it kept falling on me. OH knew it was falling and all hed sau was be careful. Then it like crashed on my lap while she was turning and instead of askibg if i was okay. Was the baby okay? She said "Diego watch my stuff i don't want it to break."
So what does he do? He hokds it with obe hand the qhole rest of the ride so her ahit won't break. Not so that me and William would be okay, but so her shit would be okay.
Last straw. The people going were me, oh ohs sister and his brother and sister in law, 5 people.
While ordering the tickets on her phone, she was like "how many people are there? 4?" To qhich oh says innocently acting like he doesn't know shes just being a **** "no dude theres five" to which she rolls her eyes and says 'oh yeah i forgot'.
She's juat so rude to me. I don't really givw a shit of ahe likes me or not thats not the problem, but i hate that OH doesn't stick up for me. or atleaat say something like dude you knowtheres fove people why would you say four?
Everytime we go anywhere with hia family my bight always gets ruined because of him. Even when they're nice to me. Around his family he's too busy trying to catch their attention, to try to make them laugh, trying yo make their nights as perfect as he can that he conpletely pushes me to the curb. He doesn't know this but i often find myself going to the bathroom and crying because i get so upset.
Then when he does this, of course I'm going to ve mean to him, I'm gona give him an attitude. Then he gets so angry and saus that I'm so embarrassing and "this is why i never take you any where ".
So all last night i am sitti mg n watching the movie by myself. He didnt say a singlw word to me. Any comment he made about the moviw hed turn to her and they'd have a good laugh.
It juat hurts me i always come last. Its always with his friends too.
Like it hurts me a lot. We got home and i went straight to bed. While him and her stood up in the living room wating and watchinf tv.
Its not like Jim saying choose me or your family.. its just i expect more thab that. We've been together for two years were loving together and have a baby onthe wau and still, he's just a kiss ass to these people who bh the way treat hin like shit.
Theu ignore hin and tell him to shut up and make hin doceverything.
 
Forgive my typos i wrotw this in a crying angry rage!!!
 
Sorry you have to deal with your OHs ignorant family!
They sound insane. There is no reason for them to treat you with such disrespect... But even still whether they like you or not they need to get over that and treat you with some respect after all you are the mother of their brothers child. They should be encouraging him to treat you well and take care of you, not ignoring you and what not.
I would be so livid in your situation. Im sorry theres not much I can say to help I guess.. But if I were you I would make it clear to him that he cant act that way towards you around his family.. Its jus not right. You and William are his family too now, and he needs to act like it and stick up to his family!
 

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