Oligospermia

[maaybe2010]

Yes we have a low sperm count, they swim good but a low count

I can't believe it's took me a MONTH after OH got his results back to find this out!!
Now he either lied to me or he just didn't listen to the FS, I will never leave him to go alone again.

Fuming

 

[dan-o]

Sorry to hear this, how low is it maybe? xx

 

[maaybe2010]

Thanks hun

I have no idea!!
Been trying to get an actual number since his appointment which was 19th July but no one wants to give it to me so it must be pretty bad?

OH says his consultant didn't say anything about low count
I swear everyone is working against me

Even had to argue with OH to ring the doctors to even pick up the 'results'.
He said that he would have to get an appointment and they wouldn't give them to him otherwise, blah, blah.
I don't want to think it but I'm wondering if he lied to me about not being told?
He keeps saying that he wants me to get the HSG becasue he thinks there's something wrong with me and not him. . .

He gave a sample last week and he's got another sample to give in about a week so I'm definatley going to the next appointment with him

 

[dan-o]

Oh good, glad you are going next time! This is a joint effort after all, lol!!!

I think men can be a bit sensitive about how fertile they are, bless em! xx

Good luck, hope it's better than you think xxxx

 

[maaybe2010]

I know, I wanted to go last time but had a different appointment I had to go to
Thanks hun x x x x x

 

[Aphrodite]

maaybe our GP was pretty useless too. When my DH asked for a copy of the results (he wasnt going to give them to him) he said what for?

But, ur hubby saying thathe thinks there is something wrong with you tells me he's in denial and shock from it all. I think he knows perfectly well he has a low count, but maybe wants to share the burden with u and if theres something wrong with u it might make him feel better ?

Men are pretty useless with information tho. I dont trust my DH to do anything I feel I could do better myself! Case in point he has been trying to sort out some benefits for us while he's been off work. Convo went something like this:

Me: So how long will it be till we hear?
DH: I dont know
Me: How much might you get?
DH: Im not sure
Me: So do we wait for them to call us now or for a letter
DH: I dont know
Me: FFS Didnt u ask them anything???!!!
DH: I didnt think

Story of his life!

Moral of the story-definitely go with ur DH next time!!!

 

[maaybe2010]

Haha thanks hun!

I agree with what you just said. . .
I think it's a male pride thing

Aww good luck with your OH

x x x x

 

[Aphrodite]

LOL What are they like! Luckily, he has SOME sense and told me, 'next time they ring you talk to them'. Phew!!!