omg i loathe my OH

claire roach

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whats going on with me for the last few days my OH has grated on me like you couldnt imagine everything he does or says gets on my nerves. if he farts or smokes i want 2 stab him lol
even the thought of kissing him repulses me
this is so awful as hes amazing to me why the hell am i like this everytime im pregnant i seriously go off my OH. hes not the father of my last 2 and it was exactly the same then with the exeption of my ex oh being a wanker anyways
my OH asks me 2 stop pushing him away and even that bugs me i feel like hes being needy!!!!
i feel so tired and sick all day i just want 2 be left alone, but saying that my kids dont have that effect on me my 4 yr olds become really cwtchy and im loving it
this baby was really wanted and we were both extatic about it but now im the dragon from hell
 
iv been like that with both my pregnancies to, seems to have calmed down a bit now but OH still annoys me with loads lol
 
OH gets on my nerves when he doesnt assit with anything, the other day i shouted if i''m bloody knacked now, and you cant help i'm sure to be up to my eye ball in it when i'm 8months!!!
He helps but it like his doing ME a favour, erm Hello, we both live in this house, we both make a mess we both work, so it shouldnt be me doing it all. If he continues i've threatened to smash his Xbox 360
that makes a man move
 
worst thing is mines great hes quite happy 2 run around after me and he even comes home from work and does the whole house if it needs doing and never moans
he still bugs the hell outta me tho bless him
 
Ah, ur poor OH but its just ur hormones, they affect us in such weird ways

My hubby doesnt annoy me as such altho when he farts when Im eating my dinner I have a go and look at him that could kill but other than that I think Im adoring him at the mo

The only thing I cant do is be intimate in any shape or form, a cuddle and a kiss is as far as I can go, he doesn mention it but I just cant do it, hes fine tho, at least I think he is, I think he understands

Im sure this phase will pass with u, these little bubbas do cause us some problems dont they but its all so worth it in the end
 
Mine has been lovley, so understanding, lol, the only problem i have with him is, he has to walk all day in his job, so when he comes home and takes his shoes off, the smell makes me heave, but thats not his fault.
My kids seem to be niggling at me more than normal though.
 
Its ok My BF has been an asshole to me more then usual lately I think he's scared hes going to have to grow up and be a man lol
 
I've been the bitch from hell for the last week or so as well, if my Dh so much as breathes on me I have a cardiac arrest :rofl: Then he looks at me all insulted with the " what was that for" look on his face, and it makes me even worse. He was off work for a whole week last week and I thought I would go insane if he didn't f... off and leave me alone, so I sent him off fishing most days.
He would be mortified if he read this but it's true...he's driving me mad :hissy:
Glad I'm not on my own xxxxxxxx
 
My boyfriend seems to be irritating me too. He's being all clingy and phoning about 6 times a day and doing everything for me and it's just winding me up, even though I know it shouldn't because it's because he cares. I can't seem to cope with even cuddles and kisses at the moment... It's all a bit strange isn't it!
 
Oh I was bad in first tri :lol: Any strange bodily noises that my DH made I'd pounce on him for (because they literally made me sick!)
 
I've been the bitch from hell for the last week or so as well, if my Dh so much as breathes on me I have a cardiac arrest :rofl: Then he looks at me all insulted with the " what was that for" look on his face, and it makes me even worse. He was off work for a whole week last week and I thought I would go insane if he didn't f... off and leave me alone, so I sent him off fishing most days.
He would be mortified if he read this but it's true...he's driving me mad :hissy:
Glad I'm not on my own xxxxxxxx



lol@cardiac arrest

im going to try and make an effort tonight but he really does grate on me bless him lol
oh well im glad to know its not just me our poor OHs lol
 
:rofl: This made me laugh!!
My Oh is really annoying the arse out of me at the moment too!
I snap and pick at him for no reason...i even threatened to get rid of his dog if he didnt clean up the poo as soon as he did it!
Yesterday I called him an 'irritating F**k' and he went off to work and told everybody!!!
 
aww thats how i am feeling right now with my boyfriend, just everything is totally making me upset and wat not about him.. i hope u feel better :)
 
My DH and I have been having a few fights here and there and it is mostly because he wants to be close and intimate with me and I have been tired and sick feeling so I just want to sleep and be left alone. I know he understands but at the same time he has been angry with me. We are good at the moment. I just think he doesn't step back and think...oh yeah, she is pregnant and this is all common. When I feel good, I try to go what I usually do...and all is good. He has been very supportive and helpful but just wants some love and affection when I would rather snooze! :sleep: He better get used to not being my center of attention all the time ;)
 
i think its because when were tcc were shagging the brains off them and they kinda get used 2 it, then as soon as the dreaded sickness and tiredness kick in we just wanna be left alone. it confuses them bless lol. id like to see them have a sudden surge of hormones when we get preggers so they feel the same................they should bring out a tablet lol (hmmmm that could make me a millionaire)
 
hehehe you girls are so cute :-P I am lucky I dont have this problem. We have the odd moment ofc but I know the signs now and take myself off somewhere different when the BFHS (bitch from hell syndrome) strikes.
 
i wish my OH came on here like you do spelbound maybe he would do the same
 
I get what you mean, last night my mouth was just gross excess saliver, phlegm and I had to get rid, so was out in garden went up to a corner and spat, then had to do it again, in our own garden, in a corner, no one could see except him and it had to be done my mouth was gross, and he told me to stop doing it. So instead of me explaining why I was doing it. I yelled "you fucking arsehole" stormed into the house slamming as many doors poss locked myself in the bathroom and sobbed for about 30 mins :cry:.
Then I realised that actually I was being silly lying on bathroom floor when my bed was next door, went to bed and didn't speak to him for the rest of the evening aprt from small one word answers to him I was such a :witch:
Then this morning i let rip at him while he was at work for the spitting incident lol
Feel a bit bad now :rofl:
 
haha this is exactly me, i have hated my boyfriend for the past few weeks and he just doesnt get it at all, he thinks hes being really good but just every single thing he does winds me up, i have tried telling him its just my hormones but i said it in a bitchy argument kind of way so i dont think he listened lol
 

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