rosegarden620
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Hello everyone!
Some may remember me from the pregnancy side of things, but here I am a week post partum looking for the support of my fellow new moms.
My pregnancy and delivery were perfect. Didn't have any problems in my pregnancy- aside from a minute preterm labor scare at 32 weeks which ultimately meant nothing except me being dilated at 4cm for weeks. My delivery was perfect! I labored irregularly until I was 8cm dilated and they broke my water so that I would complete my last 2cm. She was out in 30 minutes start to finish.
My post partum period has been also great. My husband had a week off work and resumes tomorrow, my MIL lives with us and has been a huge help (mopping my floors as I write!) and people have brought us dinner this entire week.
My two oldest daughters have adapted well and life is surely resuming to normalcy as this week comes to a close.
I am exclusively bf'ing and aside from her cluster feedings at night, things are going grand.
Emotionally I am a mess. I cry over everything and in particular at deep topics like life, death and love. I have been having a difficult-ish time coming to terms with not being pregnant and watching my LO grow, what feels like, all to quickly.
I sobbed all last evening. Literally. I showered and sobbed simultaneously....I sobbed and sobbed and sobbed.
Her umbilical stump fell off last night and I practically collapsed in tears. The idea of dh going back to work and our bubble-time being over had me sobbing. The idea that my labor and delivery is now a vivid memory as opposed to something in the near future had me in sobs....
I'm not depressed, or overwhelmed with negativity...just overwhelmed with emotion and realities. It's tough.
How is everyone else feeling? Where are you on the postpartum timeline? I'm still bleeding and passing small clots. I stopped taking pain meds three days ago and felt how sore I really was.
LO was born at 38w1d
Weighed 8lbs 1.3oz
19"
All natural with no tearing.
Anyone decide on birth control yet? Dh and I are going to keep under natural family planning with use of condoms and the occasional pull and pray method! Lol (jk about the last part....sort of lol)
Really looking forward to talking to some mommys!
Some may remember me from the pregnancy side of things, but here I am a week post partum looking for the support of my fellow new moms.
My pregnancy and delivery were perfect. Didn't have any problems in my pregnancy- aside from a minute preterm labor scare at 32 weeks which ultimately meant nothing except me being dilated at 4cm for weeks. My delivery was perfect! I labored irregularly until I was 8cm dilated and they broke my water so that I would complete my last 2cm. She was out in 30 minutes start to finish.
My post partum period has been also great. My husband had a week off work and resumes tomorrow, my MIL lives with us and has been a huge help (mopping my floors as I write!) and people have brought us dinner this entire week.
My two oldest daughters have adapted well and life is surely resuming to normalcy as this week comes to a close.
I am exclusively bf'ing and aside from her cluster feedings at night, things are going grand.
Emotionally I am a mess. I cry over everything and in particular at deep topics like life, death and love. I have been having a difficult-ish time coming to terms with not being pregnant and watching my LO grow, what feels like, all to quickly.
I sobbed all last evening. Literally. I showered and sobbed simultaneously....I sobbed and sobbed and sobbed.
Her umbilical stump fell off last night and I practically collapsed in tears. The idea of dh going back to work and our bubble-time being over had me sobbing. The idea that my labor and delivery is now a vivid memory as opposed to something in the near future had me in sobs....
I'm not depressed, or overwhelmed with negativity...just overwhelmed with emotion and realities. It's tough.
How is everyone else feeling? Where are you on the postpartum timeline? I'm still bleeding and passing small clots. I stopped taking pain meds three days ago and felt how sore I really was.
LO was born at 38w1d
Weighed 8lbs 1.3oz
19"
All natural with no tearing.
Anyone decide on birth control yet? Dh and I are going to keep under natural family planning with use of condoms and the occasional pull and pray method! Lol (jk about the last part....sort of lol)
Really looking forward to talking to some mommys!