Only 40 days to go and....

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MIL is still causing problems and the thought of the day is filling me with dread!!
I can't wait to marry OH, but the thought of having her near my wonderful family and friends is ruining it all for me. I have moaned before in GS and since the last fall out her and OH have barely spoken, and he has said if I don't want her there he will tell her to stay away, and deep down that is what I want, but I feel too mean, and I don't this to be something that could cause upset between us in the future, as it is my decision. As I know in time OH and MIL's relationship will probably improve, and I totally accept that as she is his Mum, and I don't want her always chirping on about how I wouldn't let her be at the wedding, and it upsetting OH.
I know nobody can help me decide, but I just don't know what to do.

 

[QueenMummyToBe]

Hun,

You shouldn't be feeling this way at all, your wedding should be one of your most amazing and happy days of your life, I would get your OH to tell MIL2B that if she doesn't have anything nice to say then to keep her mouth shut and I would also say if she has that much of a problem with your wedding then she doesn't have to come.

Ignore everything.

Your wedding is for the two of you. No one else!!!

xXx