opinions please

[confuzzled]

Ok so rant/ need opinions advice

well last week my brother in law announced he cheated on his wife he was like oh im not even sure if we slept together to then say actually i do an shes prgnant dont tell anyone!!!fuck you insensitive *******!! an now my sis is 12-14 wks to a guy who has beaten her and has a child he cant see due to beating that ones mum up and his.mother!!!
Great
sorry
Me and hubby have been ttc for nearly 3years i had a miscarriage in february and im finding it all really hard, i have had test done and all is fine i have to wait 7months until a gynae appointment, the dr has given me clomid to start if my period comes friday but im so lost at everything any advice about clomid or situation wud b great
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[No Doubt]

First, I love your name!

Second hun, about the situation, there's really not much you can do about it unfortunately. I know it sucks seeing this person cheating and gets a baby and this person allowing herself to be beaten and gets a baby, and here you and your hubby are in happy marital bliss and nothing but heartache. I've felt like this myself. My brother somehow got a baby out of cheating and then twins 6 months later with his then fiance, now wife. This all coming after his first child when he was 17. I've really talked to God about this before and told him that I really think he gave my kids to my brother...not all four, but maybe like two. So I get it, but what helps me is knowing that if they were meant to be my kids, they would have been. And knowing that it's completely possible and will happen one day. I know it's harder cause they are so close to you, but just try to stay focused on you and your hubby. I'm so sorry about your miscarriage hun, and I know that only makes it harder.

As far as clomid, I took it for about 9 months. I did days 3-7 @ 50mg. Some of the side effects which I guess are the more popular ones include hot flashes, being emotional/hormonal, it often pushes your O back by a few days. I felt like all of my hormones were heightened more the longer I was on it. At first all I had was hotflashes, and a touch more being emotional, but by the last month I was very hormonal, my boobs were always sore in my LP probably cause my progesterone was always high, af hurt more, O was extremely painful cause of OHSS the last couple of cycles. But some people never really feel anything or have any of these symptoms.

GL hun!