Orgasm TMI

[HildieVK]

I am way too embarrassed to ask my doctor about this, and I can't find ANY information on it.

When I have an orgasm, I have projectile-esque squirting/ejaculation. No, it isn't pee: it's clear liquid from the vagina.

I hear stuff about orgasm helping the to swim upstream, but is it possible that I'm flushing out whatever is going in? Could the solution to our TTC problems be eliminating or timing my orgasms??

Does ANYONE else have this issue or something similar?

 

[Kadan82]

Thats a good question. I have heard of that but never experienced that myself. From what I understand there are two kinds of orgasms for women. The most common is clitoral and the other is g spot. Clitoral orgasms produce cm but not much. The g spot orgasm is the kind that can actually produce the projectile like ejaculation. Does that happen every time you have one? I would think that could possibly cause some semen to be washed out if it happens right after he ejaculates. Maybe try to make it happen before him instead of after or skip it on the nights you know are close to OV. Well I don't think I told you anything you didn't know, but I didn't want to read and run. You can always google it, that's the way I usually get my questions answered that Im too embarrassed to ask in person! Good luck

 

[EngineerGirl]

I heard about that happening too. I forget the percentage of women who do it, but they don't know why it happens and it's pretty normal.

You could try timing things so you come significantly before your partner, perhaps?

 

[HildieVK]

Thanks Ladies! We try to time it, but sometimes we just can't. It's hard sometimes to get in the mood with the planned OV sex, so once things start going we don't really take the time to stop and relax ourselves in the middle of things. Guess we'll have to start getting creative.

 

[griffinh]

Hey hun
No, you wont ejaculate back out the spermies the clear liquid comes from a small pouch just inside the urethra, but its not urine. the spermies are up by your cervix and the ejaculate is near the opening so dont worry x

 

[gardenofedens]

good to know, I've had that happen a couple times. It definitely freaked me out the first few times!

 

[HildieVK]

Last night we were and I was trying to hold off... can you believe he actually got offended?? I was like, dude, you do it for me all the time! "Yeah, but I'm the MAN".

Who knew he was so sensitive! Anyway it lead to a nice long (non sexy) talk about our bedroom behaviors, concerns with ttc, and all that stuff. It killed the mood, naturally, but rather it kill the mood now than when I'm fertile, right?

1ww starts tonight!