Ugh, I'm so scared of this...my sex drive hasn't gone anywhere since I've been pregnant but my boyfriend's seems to have. I know he loves me and is still attracted to me, but I'm scared he just sees me as the mother of his child now, and not as a sexual being, if you get what I mean? Although maybe I'm just being paranoid and hormonal...IDK!
Have tried to talk to him about it but all he says is "Of course I still fancy you..." But him saying it just isn't enough.
Plus when I was first pregnant I had serious doubts about our relationship and pushed him away a bit, and he ended up sending...shall i say, "heavily loaded" texts to a girl he used to be sleeping with. I forgave him, but his reasons really bother me, that I was pushing him away and he needed an 'ego boost'. Like that's ANY sort of excuse. And I can't guarentee that I won't push him away again, what if next time flirty texts aren't enough.
IDK, in some ways I trust him to the end of the world, and I know that he's crazily in love with me. But then I think am I just being naive? Love doesn't stop people cheating.
Isn't it horrible trying to unscramble what you're really thinking/feeling, from the hormones???