Kate&Lucas
& OH & Mush
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It's just a terrible idea! More money should go into training professionals. I gave up breast feeding very early because the MW told me (very judgmentally) that I'd never be able to breastfeed properly due to becoming very ill a few days PP and relying on formula for that one day. I could have tried pumping during that time but I was told (by another midwife) it was pointless because I couldn't get any milk out by hand, so I'd get none with the pump either. I later asked the same MW for some help and she dropped a leaflet on my bedside table, next to three copies of the exact same leaflet.
Now I found out much too late that the information I was given was ludicrous! But that was two head midwives, two different days. A separate midwife told me I'd need the curtain shut while I tried to breastfeed (I was in there a week and had breastfed plenty of times infront of the other mums), she shut me out as if I was doing something grotesque. Another told me that 20 minutes was a very long feed. The 'advice' given by some professionals is bloody ridiculous. I was terrified and thought I was harming my baby by trying so I gave up very quickly. I had one home visit after leaving hospital and they weren't bothered, just handed me more leaflets. You trust that these people are giving you the best help, and if they're not you assume you can't be helped.
No amount of money can help mothers if there's no proper support there. Formula feeding is already a very costly option. How much is a can of formula, about £7? Say a can a week for 12 months, that's £364. If that's not already an incentive to make new mums want to breastfeed, a voucher for £200 isn't going to do much is it?
Now I found out much too late that the information I was given was ludicrous! But that was two head midwives, two different days. A separate midwife told me I'd need the curtain shut while I tried to breastfeed (I was in there a week and had breastfed plenty of times infront of the other mums), she shut me out as if I was doing something grotesque. Another told me that 20 minutes was a very long feed. The 'advice' given by some professionals is bloody ridiculous. I was terrified and thought I was harming my baby by trying so I gave up very quickly. I had one home visit after leaving hospital and they weren't bothered, just handed me more leaflets. You trust that these people are giving you the best help, and if they're not you assume you can't be helped.
No amount of money can help mothers if there's no proper support there. Formula feeding is already a very costly option. How much is a can of formula, about £7? Say a can a week for 12 months, that's £364. If that's not already an incentive to make new mums want to breastfeed, a voucher for £200 isn't going to do much is it?