PAL Spring 2011 babies - Welcome Mason, Iris, Lily, Isaac, Luca & Dominic !!!!

[jenny25]

ok as i promised here is my bump pic sorry for looking a scruff lol

 

[mislaww]

Morning ladies! Jeez I missed a lot.

Sorry to see Amy go...she'll be missed. But obviously understandable.

Glad to hear it's good news for Kayleigh and Patsy. Neens, I'm sure it's good news for you too!

Welcome newbies! Congrats!

Min - ugh, I am with you. That mythical second trimester boost has not come my way yet either. Fingers crossed for all of us that it's coming soon.

AFM - I lost sleep last night over the silliest thing. I went to see some kittens yesterday (aww....they were absurdly cute) and can't quite decide if they're the right kittens for me. As DH says - could there be a wrong kitten? No, probably not, but right now this seems like an epic decision for me...

 

[mislaww]

Nice pic, Jen! You look adorable, not scruff!

I'm wearing a dress to work today that shows my bump quite a bit. I've told my boss and a couple people here, but feel weird about telling everyone. So for my amusement, the solution is that I'm not telling anyone else. Anyone who cares to know must ask the super awkward question whether I'm pregnant or just fat. I work with a lot of men so this will be great...

 

[jenny25]

the last few days have taken a toll on me tbh with aarron not being well and that , i have been getting hassle from aarrons school its got to the point where my hair has started falling out now x

 

[Tulip]

Fabulous news Kayleigh Thanks for updating Mush!

Jen you look fantastic, sorry you're having such a hard time hon. How is Aaron today? x

Annie - loving the awkward question plan - do keep us updated

OK sorry it's been a few days.....
Happy 17 weeks Leah!
Happy 16 weeks Lianne!
Happy 10 weeks Neen

Lots of love.... any suggestions for dinner? (Hubby's away again ) xxxxx

 

[mislaww]

So sorry Jen. That all sounds terribly stressful. Hope Aaron will be on the mend soon.

 

[jenny25]

he is doing so much better girls thanks

well i need your advise about aarrons school i have had problems since before the holidays he had been doing things in school he shouldnt but he aint a bad kid he is normal and i think he picks things up from other kids in their cause he doesnt really see many kids out of school maybe a couple and their not bad, i keep getting bullied and pressured into taking parent craft classes on how to be a mum and how to discipline him he does get it at home when he has done wrong i know their is gobby little shits at his school but their parents dont get pulled in every other day and kept getting on about these classes today i called the school at 8.26am to let them know what happened to aarron i explained he had problems breathing and was rushed into hospital by ambulance on sat so that was fine now i didnt hear the house phone as it was down stairs now they call my mother in law at work and hassle her saying oh we need my new mobile number now this is something that can wait until he returns too school so i call them and i get how is aarron what is wrong with him is he on this medication bla bla bla then i get oh well you wont be able to fill in this form about the classes im like excuse me why are you hassling me at home when my son is ill ( this was what i was thinking i never said it) when will aarron be back at school so when do you think you will be able to start these classes im like fuck off now as i said before their are other kids in the school are far worse than aarron now why am i the only one being bullied or targeted and not them and she said while i got you on the phone whats your new number so girls do you think that they are bullying me or picking on me i get his all the time and every time they pull me in for stupid little things they always bring this up even if im only in to see aarrons work or what and im so annoyed what should i do x

 

[debgreasby]

Personally i would ask if there is any legal requirement for you to take these classes! If you don't feel you would benefit from them, then there's no point. Does he behave badly at home ( as in doing the same things as at school?) Have they spoken to you and outlined their methods of dealing with his behaviour at school?

 

[Vickieh1981]

Glad it all went well Kayleigh.

Jen - cute bump.

Annie, that made me smile that there could be a wrong kitten for you xx

 

[Beadette]

Jen I agree with Deb. I would ask them if there is a legal requirement and if there is not and I did not feel that I needed the classes I would ask them to respect my decision not to attend and explain that you are in the early stages of a new pregnancy and their behaviour is causing you lots of stress. In my opinion they should be supporting you to come to a solution together not bullying you.

Who will be facilitating these classes? Is there any way of speaking to them about who Aaron socialises with in classes?

Hugs hun! I'm sorry you are going through this xx

 

[jenny25]

their is no legal requirement for me to take these classes its ran by another mother ! not someone who has a degree in child psychology aarron is like two different people from what they say he is a totally different type of person at school than he is at home , for example if he is cheeky or helps himself too something he shouldnt then he gets time out and his fav toy taken away at school they said he spat on a little girl now i sware down he has never ever done this at home so their for he has seen someone else do it picked it up from school cause none of us have those type of manners im not saying we are snobs but clearly we know what too do and not do etc i am really freaking out here i really dont need this at all

 

[debgreasby]

Tell them you are not interested then! Tell them you are willing to sit down and discuss his behaviour with his teacher/the head, but right now you are coping with early pregnancy and have health concerns so it will have to be done at a time to suit you.

 

[Lianne1986]

Jen i had a similar prob with tyler. he was a right little monkey at school and at home. i had a lady come out to me once a week to advice me on how to handle his behaviour. (suggested by school)
y cant the school do him a reward chart or sumthing instead? i mean when tyler was naughty at school they sorted it in school.
also i understand what ur sayin bout bad habits being picked up at school...tylerhas picked up a couple.

i hope u get it sorted soon.

tyler is a lot better behaved now he got an award on the last day of term last term from the head master so far this term he has been a star

 

[sequeena]

Hello everyone... I'm newly pregnant and terrified!! My EDD is May 31st 2011. AF should have been due tomorrow I really hope she stays away!!!

 

[Vickieh1981]

I saw that on the ttc thread. I am really pleased for you hun xxx

 

[jenny25]

thanks girls well im going to speak to them and tell them the only contact i want from them is when aarron is naughty and even at that i will ask them to contact paul and not me if they cant comply with me then i will tell them i will contact ofstead or even the education board and get them done for harrasment or what ever , im now burning up got a fever 37.8 so i think im gonna take a couple of pain killers and get into bed girls i feel so shitty i cant even enjoy this pregnancy x

 

[debgreasby]

feel better soon

 

[jenny25]

thanks so much girls for being their letting me rant love ya guys loads xxx

 

[tinybutterfly]

bless my mom....
i really didn't feel like cooking (i've spent my day ill in the couch, semi sleeping),
my mom didn't know but suddenly she calls to say she has lots of leftovers and if
i want them, hooray! dinner brought to my house...
then she also said she'd come over thursday to help clean up the house a bit, mob the floor etc
bc i'm so tired and barely get anything done

 

[Tulip]

Awww love your mum Tibs!

Welcome Sequeena! We've been expecting you