PAL Spring 2011 babies - Welcome Mason, Iris, Lily, Isaac, Luca & Dominic !!!!

[Charliemarina]

oh amos im sorry it came back hunny but im sure everything is ok, are u cramping this time?? if not then i wouldnt panic hunny it seems this is how ur bean likes to scare mummy,we are all here with u hunny tomorrow do let us know how u get on wont you, and has the bleeding slowed again now?xxxxx

 

[Amos2009]

Well, I am bleeding really bad now

 

[Charliemarina]

thanks for your advice , you know i think after having this baby unless my mental state changes in regards to anxiety and panic attacks i dont think i will have anymore , i wasnt even like this when i was pregnant with aarron , when i was 19 i lost my son paul i was almost 21 when i had aarron then i had 2 mc between march -sept 09 , and my anxiety only seems to be affecting this pregnancy x

hey hunny i was thinking maybe this pregnancy is effecting ur mental state more is because u have alot to think about this time round. like myself u have had a healthy child and never feared losing babys but now you do after losing 2 pregnancys, im a mental wreck at the moment every twinge and pull or even going for a wee scares the life out of me literally, i think to myself why am i getting so worked up if anything happened now theres nothing anyone could do and to stop torturing myself and enjoy being pregnant again but it so hard to actually do that well i suppose thats what we are all here for rant our fears to one another and for more support than i could ever imagine even from my family i just cannot get the support and PMA u girls have to give out

 

[Charliemarina]

Well, I am bleeding really bad now

oh hunny do u mean alot more than u have had yet??
pls dont get upset hunny is there no way of going to A&E and explaining everything thats gone on and explain this doesnt feel right u want a scan xxx

 

[EpdTTC]

Vickie-I would feel a little invaded by someone reading my thread like that and then calling me...but I guess that is the chance we all take when we post on a public forum. On the other hand-I think it is good that they know how you came away feeling and that they are going to make it right. That is the way it should be. And you get to see your baby again. yay!

Amos-I'm sorry you are bleeding again sweetie. I know that when I was spotting for 2-3 weeks that it freaked me out. I had to remind myself that every time something new happened-one time it was brownish spotting, another time red blood, then clots, etc. Every time, something new happened related to bleeding/spotting/clots (four different occasions) I went running to my doc and had a scan and everything was fine. So then after that, when it happened again, I had to tell myself, ok, this happened before and I went and got checked out and things were fine so things are probably fine. I hope that this is also the case for you. I will be thinking of you today and tomorrow.

 

[Amos2009]

I learned my lesson after my last bleeding episode and I went to the hospital. They basically said there was nothing they could do if I was mcing so I sat there for 3 hours for nothing. It is more than I have had in the past so I am really worried now. And the kicker is I am still having major sore boobs and nausea. But I have learned that doesn't really mean anything.

 

[Tulip]

Amy hon, got everything crossed for you and Tweetie... s/he's clung on so far xxx

Bumble - I've updated you! Perfectly normal to struggle with the doppler. Make sure you've got a full bladder and are aiming the probe down behind your pubic bone. Try to keep it in the same place and angle all the way slowly round, then move the probe if you can't find it

 

[jenny25]

I'm sorry your going through this Amy but you know the risk of mc goes down alot and I mean alot once you have seen a heartbeat maybe this isthe last of the blood coming away xxx

 

[Vickieh1981]

Am sorry that you are going through this again Amy - it's not fair at all. I hope that it's just the same as it has been before and tweety is doing fine in there xxx

 

[Mummy2Angel.]

So sorry amy i'm really hoping your little bean is fine, shall be thinking of you tomorrow x

 

[roonsma]

Amos, got my fingers x'd for you and the little one x

Vickie!! OMG how the hell did she trace you? scary!! but good you got a re-scan, you certainly should have been offered one xx

 

[Beadette]

Amy I'm so sorry you are having this worry with the bleeding. I will keep everything crossed for you x x x x x

 

[Vickieh1981]

Amos, got my fingers x'd for you and the little one x

Vickie!! OMG how the hell did she trace you? scary!! but good you got a re-scan, you certainly should have been offered one xx

I put my pictures up - they had my full name and which clinic I went to on what date lol

 

[roonsma]

LOL!! here's me thinking she was a member of MI6!! x

 

[mislaww]

Amy, I'm so sorry that you're going through this. I hope it stops soon and your little bean keeps holding tight.

Big hugs.

 

[braijackava]

So I am a little worried. It is nothing serious,but today I had some brown spotting on my underwear when I went to the bathroom and since then brown tinged cm when I wipe. Sorry tmi. I had my pap smear 4 days ago. Could it be from that? Just looking for a little advice. Think I will call the doctor in the morning just to be safe.

 

[parkgirl]

Hello ladies. I've been out of town the past few days and I've missed so much. First off, congrats to all who had such wonderful scans!! Great news. Next, welcome to the new ladies. I hope you have super sticky beans in there. Lastly, I'm so sorry for those who are spotting/bleeding. Big hugs to you.

AFM- My first appointment with my doctor is Wednesday morning and I'm both excited and scared. I hope they do more than just a basic exam and actually check on the baby. I hate the prenatal care you get here.

 

[Tulip]

So I am a little worried. It is nothing serious,but today I had some brown spotting on my underwear when I went to the bathroom and since then brown tinged cm when I wipe. Sorry tmi. I had my pap smear 4 days ago. Could it be from that? Just looking for a little advice. Think I will call the doctor in the morning just to be safe.

It does sound like old blood from an irritated cervix hon. Try not to worry unless it's red xx

 

[babysimpson]

Not had a chance to read up yet as my laptop is lost so not got access. At work just now but need to call EPAU when they open in 15 minutes as I woke up this morning at 6:00 am covered in blood. It's eased off a bit and have used a pad in two hours. I'm not hopeful at all and really hope they will bring forward my scan to today instead of making me wait until Thursday.

 

[Vickieh1981]

Not had a chance to read up yet as my laptop is lost so not got access. At work just now but need to call EPAU when they open in 15 minutes as I woke up this morning at 6:00 am covered in blood. It's eased off a bit and have used a pad in two hours. I'm not hopeful at all and really hope they will bring forward my scan to today instead of making me wait until Thursday.

I am so sorry hun. I hope they can bring your scan forward. xxx