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[Vickieh1981]

Hi, I hope everyone is well.

This time next week I should have had my early scan and hopefully all will be ok this time. I'm getting really nervous though. It's going to be a looooooooooooong week.

I am not sure that I will be 7 weeks when we go for scan I might only be around 6wks4days would that matter? Should we still be able to see baby/heartbeat?

YOu should be able to. My first scan I was measuring 6+1 and saw a lovely heartbeat.

Patsy - sorry you are having a worrying time. I hope the EPU are helpful

 

[Charliemarina]

well getting a scan on thursday, i cant believe its taking that long wen i ended up in late night docs last night with red bleeding
i know its over girls i just know in my heart bean is not with me, i think i'll know the answer b4 thursday and if some miracle does happen and i dont bleed till then then maybe i will stand a chance, i know u girls have had worse episodes of bleeding but iv been here b4 many times now and just KNOW whats going on all i can say is GUTTED :cry2: and this is the last time im ever going through this, my baby making days are over i have concentrate on my babies i have already, this is my 5th loss and i really dont think i am strong enough to go again at it, sorry girls

 

[prgirl_cesca]

Oh patsy. All is not lost YET

 

[babysimpson]

Charliemania - I thought exactly the same yesterday morning when I woke up covered. My OH jumped out of bed and ran to my side to hold me close. As I've said the scan showed that I've got a large blood clot but there is also a sac too. The tests the midwife done on my urine came back with really high results and she is positive that baby is still ok. I'm going back next week for another scan.

There is a chance that what you're experiencing could be similar and that baby is ok. Amos is giving me hope as she has had it worse than me and her baby is doing fine. Is there no way you could call EPU and ask to be seen today instead if you explain how traumatised this is leaving you? What I did when things started going bad was to do a digi test (maybe not the best idea but hey). Within a week the test had gone to 1-2 weeks to 3+ so that gave me a little bit of hope.

 

[Charliemarina]

iv booked a private scan for 3.40pm today for £100 i dont care about the cost i just need to know my baby is either gone or ok im so scared girls coz i know its bad i just do in my heart i know

 

[debgreasby]

 

[jenny25]

i pray everythin will be alright hun i really do

i had the most painful gas build up during the night i had cramps in my tummy and i could feel my tummy rumbling inside as if it was gas trying to get out it really freaked me out i was like oh god please no its really scared me and i still need to wait till thus for a scan i may ask my midwife tomorrow to send me up for a scan tomorrow i cant wait till thus x

 

[Charliemarina]

sorry the scan is 2.40 and wen i went docs last night he said by feeling my belly im blocked or constipated and iv heard this can cause cramping right??

ok this is happening as of now........
iv had no bleeding this morning, i tried hard to go for a poo and managed that and now cramping has gone somewhat i thought going for a toilet would bring on a big bleed but even after pushing iv had nothing but brown cm again, im so confused, im not going to this scan with PMA im going headed that there is no baby and if there is and it hanging in there then i will become PMA again, i just cant have my hope raised to be brought down once again, i want to test as i know by now that line should be very dark but i just cant bring myself to do it, i know its not the best thing to do right now.....i just wish it would either go away totally and scan be ok or just come on so i can grieve and get over it AGAIN
oh girls this will be the 5th time why me why me

 

[Charliemarina]

i pray everythin will be alright hun i really do

i had the most painful gas build up during the night i had cramps in my tummy and i could feel my tummy rumbling inside as if it was gas trying to get out it really freaked me out i was like oh god please no its really scared me and i still need to wait till thus for a scan i may ask my midwife tomorrow to send me up for a scan tomorrow i cant wait till thus x

good luck with scan hunny im sure everything will be great iv also got scan booked for thursday with EPU but i cant wait that long so booked with baby bond today

 

[fluffyblue]

Patsy, my heart goes out to you babe - im not gonna say everythings gonna be alright because thats the wrong thing to say but I am thinking and praying for you xxxx

 

[Beadette]

Oh Patsy, i'm sorry you are going through this horrible time. I pray everthing is ok.

To the other girls with scans this week - good luck and I will be thinking about you all. It is the most terrfying time ever. The night before I was a nervous wreck and like Vickie said, it was a major paranoia attack not gut feeling that something was wrong.

AFM - I've had an awful night but am counting myself lucky that even though this symptom is horrid - its there and its reassuring. I was severely ill all night and got probably an hours sleep all night. Bead found me crying in the bathoom at 4am vomitting bile and I couldn't control it. There was nothing left in my tummy at all - it was awful but if this is what I have to put up with for a healthy baby I will do!! I think its just that I had a fear of being sick from a young age. It really distresses me. I'll get used to it though! LOL - I have a really tender sore tummy and sore throat this morning and am trying to sip water but the thought of eating anything frightens me. I will grab something bland later though! My biggest worry was that I had harmed bubs by all the retching. Silly I know xxxx

 

[fluffyblue]

Oh Neen I know how awful that feeling was make sure you are properly hydrated lots of water and small small regular portions !

Like you say sometimes its a small sacrifice but it doesnt make it any nicer to deal with xxx

 

[debgreasby]

to Patsy and Jenny! Keeping my fingers crossed for you both.

Poor Neens, hope it settles soon

AFM - off to Pizza Hut with Paul and the kids YAY!

 

[Beadette]

Fluffy - thnks hun - yes it is such small sacrifice but was just worse than I imagined. I'm trying to focus on the positives though! lol xxxxx

Deb, thanks flower! Enjoy pizza hut hun! xxxx

 

[Chimpette]

Good luck with everyone's scans this week.

I've absolutely bricking it as I have my scan on friday... although I'm sure everything is ok, I guess you can't help but worry...

xxx

 

[Minimin]

Good luck ladies with scans
Beadette for feeling so ill. I am sure bubs is ok in there though remember to keep rehydrated as much as you can by small sips of water.

Amy- so glad

Chimpette- good luck!
I have another week and two days to wait for my scan now
Debs- Enjoy Pizza Hut- are you buffeting it?

 

[fluffyblue]

Morning sickness glad im past it - just got nerves setting in now, got my 20 week scan tomorrow cant believe it !!

And ohhh I love Pizza Hut, the Salmon Pasta Bake yumeeee x

 

[Vickieh1981]

Will be thinking of you this afternoon

 

[Chimpette]

sorry the scan is 2.40 and wen i went docs last night he said by feeling my belly im blocked or constipated and iv heard this can cause cramping right??

ok this is happening as of now........
iv had no bleeding this morning, i tried hard to go for a poo and managed that and now cramping has gone somewhat i thought going for a toilet would bring on a big bleed but even after pushing iv had nothing but brown cm again, im so confused, im not going to this scan with PMA im going headed that there is no baby and if there is and it hanging in there then i will become PMA again, i just cant have my hope raised to be brought down once again, i want to test as i know by now that line should be very dark but i just cant bring myself to do it, i know its not the best thing to do right now.....i just wish it would either go away totally and scan be ok or just come on so i can grieve and get over it AGAIN
oh girls this will be the 5th time why me why me

Good luck Charlie, your in my thoughts and prayers today! xxx

 

[Amos2009]

Patsy- I know what it's like to feel like it's over. My bleeds started out just like all my other losses and I've had five. I did like you though- going in thinking it was over and that way if it was good news I would be surprised, and I was. I pray that it is not over for you. You will be in my thoughts as I go to work.

Oh Beadette- that sounds really horrible