Charliemarina
expecting #4
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Hey Neens, why are you team yellow?
I'm considering joining your team and would love to hear your reasons!
I caused controversy last time I expained this and don't want to offend others - it's just my preference.
For one - I feel it will be just the best surprise and just add to the whole experience for me. I also look forward to hubby telling me what flavour we've got - I imagine it will be one of those memories that stays with me for ever. I also want everyone else around us to guess and have a surprise too.
My other reason is based on a bug bear that I've got. Now don't get me wrong I have names which I like - a shortlist if you will, and I expect when I have the baby I will have a very good idea what the babys name will be if it is either sex. And I will announce the name when baby is born - what I really don't like (I'm sorry to those who do this - remember only my opinion) is when people have the gender scan and then pick the name and start calling it by the name from then. I have people on Facebook who irritate me on a daily basis by saying things like "me and Jasmine are going into town" - Jasmine is not due for another 15 weeks!! It drives me loopy! What if that baby does not 'look' like a Jasmine when she comes out?? Now i've nothing against people who choose their babies names early on but I just don't like the whole calling them by that name to everyone before they are even born!
Now don't get me wrong - I will be dying to find out what I've got but I will be stong at te 20 week scan and not ask! Above all I just want the surprise!!
I'm going to sneak off now before people start throwing things at me!!!!!! loves xxx
dont feel bad for ur opinion hunny ur saying or doing nothing wrong and i wont be throwing anything at u, i think ur opinion is valid and honest and its ur baby hunny ur choice :0

