If she's the same stage as you? I'm surprised they can see enough to make such a diagnosis

This is your turn honey, thinking beaty, wriggly thoughts for you xxxxxxx
i'd be surprised too
i think she's just not telling us everything, which is her good right of course.
or maybe the doc said it that that was the most likely cause?
i'm a bit weary of asking her details, i don't know her that well after all
Thinkings of you, Tibs!

So sorry about your friend!
thankyouuuu
Hope your scan goes well hun
thankyouuuu
TB - did your friend say which abnormality? I had a scan with Charlie at 9 weeks, and nothing was visible. Then at 12 weeks his problems were there in all their glory. Without her having had CVS (which it would be too early for) there is no way (as far as i am aware) that they can confirm chromosome abnormalities.
she didn't go into details, which i can understand.
like i said to Nic, maybe our doc said that it was the most likely cause,
i think there was no hb and little growth or something like that.
anyway, MY update
it went well, i am sooooooooo happy!!!
i didn't sleep tonight, my stomach is still tied in a knot...
i refused to look at the screen untill OH told me it was ok to look
and then i saw it... a shrimp..still a little bit of a tail if i saw correctly,
and i immediatly saw the heart flickering, aaaw!
and then he let us hear it too, i was sooooooooo happy!!!
little one measures a bit small imo (15mm... that's about 3/5 inch)
i asked if that wasn't too small, he said no, that bubs was probably curled up a bit,
which makes sense... it was early morning... i'm sure little one was still sleeping haha