We had our sons last party at home. My husband didn't want kids party food so e cooked a huge shepherds pie and loads of veggies. The kids all tucked in (although were a bit surprised as I think they expected party food - sarnies, crisps, veggie sticks etc). We then did a massive fruit salad and then lollies (it was summer).
It was good and we did an afternoon tea for the parents - scones, jam, clotted cream and things so they were fed too.
BUT it was a small party and so easy to cater for.
Most parties we go to have sandwiches, crisps, veggie sticks (carrots, cucumber, peppers), sausages, pizza slices etc and that always goes down well too x