mummie2be
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People I know are just trying to be helpful but sometimes the advice just gets ridiculous! Yes, I know I am young, but that doesn't mean I am completely clueless.
I've been babysitting since I was 13 and had babysat from cousin from when he was 12 weeks old. Yet it seems most people still think I am incapable of taking care of a baby by myself.
My grandmother thought it was a good idea at my baby shower yesterday to tell everybody my plans for how I'm raising my baby i.e. co-sleeping, formula and breast feeding etc. Which turned into everyone telling me how dangerous co-sleeping is and started a debate over formula and breast feeding and telling me pretty much how to raise my child, what diapers to use, or rash creams. And that I need to get rid of my cats and dog because they will kill LO once she is here.
At one point I walked out of the room into the hall and could still hear everything they were saying.
I've been babysitting since I was 13 and had babysat from cousin from when he was 12 weeks old. Yet it seems most people still think I am incapable of taking care of a baby by myself.
My grandmother thought it was a good idea at my baby shower yesterday to tell everybody my plans for how I'm raising my baby i.e. co-sleeping, formula and breast feeding etc. Which turned into everyone telling me how dangerous co-sleeping is and started a debate over formula and breast feeding and telling me pretty much how to raise my child, what diapers to use, or rash creams. And that I need to get rid of my cats and dog because they will kill LO once she is here.
At one point I walked out of the room into the hall and could still hear everything they were saying.