periods and pre menopause

[Natsby]

Hi, Personal question ladies, are all of your periods the same? I mean from one cycle to another? I was always regular on 30 days but recently had three cycles of 28 and some times they are heavy and sometimes really light, so could this be pre-menopause, or were they always like this only now I´m watching closer? Trying not to panic but I´m 38 and have had two mc already so I will be really stuffed if this is pre-M.

I haven´t been on here much lately, trying to stay calm and not obsess but it is good to know in the darkest moments that you are all here, thanks.

 

[Indigo77]

I wouldn't worry about a 2 day variance....
Are you still ovulating most months?
How long is your period?

I have been charting for the past 6 months, and am on my 7th cycle.

The first 4 cylces were fairly consistent.
The 5th was wonky, 2 days longer, very light and short bleed, but I think I had an EM.
The 6th was wonky, as well, but I started taking a B complex, so that may have something to do with it....

 

[Natsby]

I think I am still ovulating, but this month I bought tests to be sure. (OH asked me to stop charting after six month and the first mc as he thinks it makes me obsess more.) I am considering getting a duo fertility monitor but they are very expensive. My period is normally three days but last one was nearer 5. I´m hoping it is just stress throwing everything out and not mp. Thanks for answering, n

 

[faye38]

hi i think you dont have any thing to worry about as you have got pregnant before i have 3 day periods i think if somtimes there a bit longer i think thats a good thing is if there less than 2 days thats when you need to talk to the doctor good luck with trying lots of baby dust it will happen xx