pg after loss

[maka888]

hi gorls.. this is my first post in here... had a missed miscarriage in september followed by a d&C .. af returned as normal but wasnt ready to try again until january.. i got my BFP on 10dpo and now im scared to death. I wish i wouldnt have tested... anyone know any way to put your mind at ease? even just for a little while?

 

[dan-o]

So sorry to hear of your loss maka, I'm currently going through the same sort of MC.

I am so happy to hear you are pg again tho & so soon.. huge congrats! Gives me a glimmer of hope

 

[bella75]

I know exactly how you feel. I've lost 3 and now I'm pregnant again. It is so hard but you have to keep thinking positive. Every day I wonder if the heart is still beating.

I am 7 weeks now, 1st and 3rd I lost at 8 weeks and the 2nd at 5 weeks. I just keep thinking if i can make it past next week, then I'm another step further.

I really hope everything works out for you hun
xx

 

[honey08]

hiya hun, i mmc last yr with my first pregnancy after a dnc we started ttc again and when i got my in november i started feeling super scared, i was early, af was due ........... but im nearly 24wk now ,think i just kept telling my self think of all the pregnancys that go just fine

congrats hun, just rest,speak to gp bout ur conserns maybe he wil get u an early scan sorted xx

 

[rainbowzebra2]

Hi, Im in the same situation - I phoned the ward where I had my D&C in Jan and they are monitoring me closely (scan every 2 weeks) I know what it feels like to worry - you sort of dont let yourself believe it just in case its sad news again. Try to stay positive. X

 

[bella75]

Yes I'm being scanned every 2 weeks as well, makes me feel so much better
xx

 

[Widger]

Lets hope this one sticks then. I'm scared about it happening again too. Good luck

 

[marsbar1973]

After my 2nd miscarriage, I got pregnant 3 months after. Was'nt planned but it happened. From very early on I bled & had aches, and constantly was in fear of another miscarriage. I had scans every 2 weeks, and was in & out of hospital for anything from a few hours to days at a time. I was on constant bed rest, had a low lying placenta, and was'nt even allowed to stand for more than a few minutes. Hard when you already have 3 children. It's very hard to have your mind put at rest after the past terrible experiences, even after a scan shows its fine, a day later you're back to worrying.

I hope it works out for you, thinking of you.