planning the wedding, a toddler and pregnant all at 19!

[BessiiBoop]

going back 3 years id have never expected that my life at 19 would be so bloody complicated lol, i have a 16 month old DD im 21+3 with another pink bump were getting married June 3rd and have been together since i was 15. i've got my own hair extensions company and 4 A levels and im doing my law degree on open uni....things seem way to busy but i wouldnt change a thing

Is your life now what any of you would have planned or is there anything you would change?

But wohoo to the yummie teen mummies xx

 

[rjb]

i didn't expect it, but i wouldn't change it

 

[BessiiBoop]

i agree i wouldnt change a thing xx

 

[LoisP]

I wouldn't change a thing. x

 

[Burchy314]

I didn't expect it until I got with my OH almost 2 years ago. I just knew he was the one. And I expected us to be together for a long time and get engaged at a young age...Well I was right lol. He proposed to me on Christmas day and then I found out I was pregnant in March. I would not change anything at all...well maybe I would change living at home lol I would love to have my own place lol.

 

[BessiiBoop]

ah that all comes in time hun, we moved out from my parents when our DD was 5months old and i found it so daunting at the beginning but love it now and wouldnt change a thing xx

 

[Burchy314]

Yeah I am almost positive I will be here until LO is atleast 1 year old. I don't have a job, never have so I don't have any money saved up and my OH only gets paid around $1200 a month and of course I have to live in one of the most expensive states in the U.S. All the decents apartments around here are about $1200 a month so that wont work. Hopefully I will find a good paying job and OH gets this promotion.

 

[BessiiBoop]

things will all come in time hun and it will be even more worth the wait when it does as you know you've done it yourselves xx

 

[Leah_xx]

I never thought I would be dating my best friend for almost 2 years. and then down the road in the end of my junior year i would end of getting pregnant. im now on home instructing till LO is born and is 6 weeks old. and having him ask me to marry him not just cause of LO but because we love eachother. But I wouldn't change anything and wouldnt change where im at right now. I love my OH and I love our lil girl so much.

 

[rainbows_x]

I always wanted this life, a wonderfull OH & children young, but never thought I'd actually get it!
Now that I have I couldn't be happier!

 

[18singlemom2b]

lucky girl! you seem to be doing amazing.

to be honest, i sort of thought there was a chance i'd be a young mom. i didn't expect to be doing this alone though. i sort of figured i'd fall madly in love with a guy, get pregnant, and then end up engaged and married. but life dealt me different cards and i'm okay with that. just taking every day one at a time

 

[xx~Lor~xx]

going back 3 years id have never expected that my life at 19 would be so bloody complicated lol, i have a 16 month old DD im 21+3 with another pink bump were getting married June 3rd and have been together since i was 15. i've got my own hair extensions company and 4 A levels and im doing my law degree on open uni....things seem way to busy but i wouldnt change a thing

Is your life now what any of you would have planned or is there anything you would change?

But wohoo to the yummie teen mummies xx

Congratulations on your pregnancy!! And well done on everything you have acheived! I'm very impressed, you've got to be the busiest person ever! How do you fit it all in?!

I love my life I'd always sort of felt like I wanted to be a mum young, and kind of almost 'knew' I would be, if that makes sense. I have a 14 month old little girl who I had 3 months after my 18th, and I'm now 24 weeks + 1 day pregnant with a little boy (he'll be born while I'm still 19) it's just perfect. Definately wouldn't change a thing

xoxox

 

[BessiiBoop]

i love the fact and am so happy that no one has said it was a 'mistake' so often you hear of younger mums getting blamed for doing something silly but personally i dont understand how any one can say a baby is a mistake, im so glad everyones doing great wether they are happily in a relationship or on their own.

Good luck to everyone, xx
oh and life is rather manic lol

 

[MissRamejkis]

I am 19 and have been with my Fiance just over a year... in the past 2 years I have got my first few jobs, finished Alevels and a BTEC in Photography (triple distinction) , met my partner, got engaged to him, moved into my first house with him, bought two puppies, kitted out a full photography studio in my home and now I'm pregnant....

I always wanted this but I didn't think I'd have it all in such a short space of time !!!


XXX

 

[AirForceWife7]

Hey! I'm Kelsey .... and I just got married on September 21st to my amazing husband. My little girl is due on December 21st and we're both anticipating her arrival! I don't have my baby in my arms yet, but my husband has to leave to go to basic training before our daughter is born, so he will miss the birth. I was really sad about this at first, but I've come to terms that it's for a good cause Planning a wedding can be tough and exhausting - I know! Lol but it's all worth it in the end .. and I never would've expected my life to change this fast .. but i definitely wouldn't change it now or ever Congratulations and best of luck!
- Kelsey xx