pixiebaby87
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hi everybody, this is my first post i came here because i dont really know where to turn?
my sister lives in australia(me in uk) her and her husband have been trying to concieve now for 7 years with no luck firstly she was told they thought she was losing babies really early and could not carry...
we talked and i offered to be her incubator for their baby. she said shed discuss it with him and theyd work out whether shed move back to the uk.
just got a phone call this morning , she recently went for an op to remove cysts off her ovaries. she burst out crying and said they have told her that the eggs shes producing she has next to nil chance of concieving
i absoloutly didnt know what to say. the way she was speaking she sounds almost like she resented me for being able to have children, said i didnt know how lucky i was to have my 2 children..it really hurt , i love my children more than anything and i know how lucky i am to have them!
i asked her was there no other possible way? but she simply cannot afford it
the only solution i can think off is becoming pregnant with his *swimmers* and my eggs , i donk know how i feel about this.(but it would be free)
i do know shed make the best mum..? please help i want to help her so much m jsut so confused
sorry for the long post xxxx hugs nic
my sister lives in australia(me in uk) her and her husband have been trying to concieve now for 7 years with no luck firstly she was told they thought she was losing babies really early and could not carry...
we talked and i offered to be her incubator for their baby. she said shed discuss it with him and theyd work out whether shed move back to the uk.
just got a phone call this morning , she recently went for an op to remove cysts off her ovaries. she burst out crying and said they have told her that the eggs shes producing she has next to nil chance of concieving
i absoloutly didnt know what to say. the way she was speaking she sounds almost like she resented me for being able to have children, said i didnt know how lucky i was to have my 2 children..it really hurt , i love my children more than anything and i know how lucky i am to have them!
i asked her was there no other possible way? but she simply cannot afford it
the only solution i can think off is becoming pregnant with his *swimmers* and my eggs , i donk know how i feel about this.(but it would be free)
i do know shed make the best mum..? please help i want to help her so much m jsut so confused
sorry for the long post xxxx hugs nic