Please dont read and run I am so upset as to what im about to tell you.
I've been with my boyfriend for 8 years and on the weekend I did someonething veryvery stupid. Weve been ttc for over a year and while he was away for a week with his friends I got very drunk and slept with someone else.
We are about to move in together in a few months and I feel like ive ruined my whole life. I havent told him as i couldnt bare the thought of losing him. I know what I did was the worst thing I could have ever done and have never done anything like this before. I love him with all my heart and because I drank far too much I felt like I was taken advantage of and couldnt control what I was doing.
My cycle started this month on August the 10th and I have a typical 24 day cycle. Me and my boyfriend had sex on the 15th, 17th, 19th, 20th, 21st and 22nd. (Cycle days 5, 7, 9, 10 and 11.) I slept with this other person on the 27th but it was early hours of the morning so would i say the 28th? which would have been cycle day 17 or 18. Its 7 days till my period is due.
If I test tomorrow and it was positive would this mean that I was already pregnant when I cheated because it would have only been a few days. Im thinking of the worse case senario here. Im in floods of tears and I have no idea what to do I really need someone to talk to. Please help me figure out some stuff or what to do.
I've been with my boyfriend for 8 years and on the weekend I did someonething veryvery stupid. Weve been ttc for over a year and while he was away for a week with his friends I got very drunk and slept with someone else.
We are about to move in together in a few months and I feel like ive ruined my whole life. I havent told him as i couldnt bare the thought of losing him. I know what I did was the worst thing I could have ever done and have never done anything like this before. I love him with all my heart and because I drank far too much I felt like I was taken advantage of and couldnt control what I was doing.
My cycle started this month on August the 10th and I have a typical 24 day cycle. Me and my boyfriend had sex on the 15th, 17th, 19th, 20th, 21st and 22nd. (Cycle days 5, 7, 9, 10 and 11.) I slept with this other person on the 27th but it was early hours of the morning so would i say the 28th? which would have been cycle day 17 or 18. Its 7 days till my period is due.
If I test tomorrow and it was positive would this mean that I was already pregnant when I cheated because it would have only been a few days. Im thinking of the worse case senario here. Im in floods of tears and I have no idea what to do I really need someone to talk to. Please help me figure out some stuff or what to do.
