Please help!!!!

[kittenmitten]

This is the first time i've gone to a forum for help so , bare with me. I am only 14, too young , i know. I've heard it all. But, i've had it rough, so take it easy , please. I'm just very worried and scared because i THINK I'm pregnant , im not for sure though. My symptoms are : short-term nasuea through out the day , short-term hot flashes , headaches , troubles sleeping, constantly tired, mood swings like crazy, and craving for anything salty and eating ice?? My other worries are that some of the symptoms are caused by my chain-smoking addiction to cigarettes and marijuana. And my biggest worry is, what if i am and i've been smoking cigarettes and marijuana!! Another worry is my boyfriend. He is 21 and we have already been involved with the police because of our age difference , but my parents dont care , and are actually quite fond of him. Will he get into trouble if i am? Anyway , please give me some feedback , ANYTHING!! ~Extremely desperate.

 

[callmedan]

you need to take a pregnancy test hun, its the only way to know for sure and you can go from there
good luck, im sure everything will be ok, lets face it if you are pregnant theres not a lot you can do about it now!

 

[Night Flower]

Why are you with a 21y.o man and having sex? Smoking? Drugs and alchol too?

Dear, I wish I knew you in RL as I'd take you away from it all and make sure YOU are taken care of properly.

There is one other 14/15y.o on this forum who has a child and pregnant with #2. I think its just utterly terrible.

 

[proudparent88]

I think you should take a test if you can't get one maybe you can find a free clinic near you that will help you. Also I feel that you should at least stop the drug use as this can be even more harmful than cigarettes. Hope you aren't I don't know if he would get in trouble or not I don't know your laws. Wishing you luck keep us updated.

 

[justhoping]

This is the first time i've gone to a forum for help so , bare with me. I am only 14, too young , i know. I've heard it all. But, i've had it rough, so take it easy , please. I'm just very worried and scared because i THINK I'm pregnant , im not for sure though. My symptoms are : short-term nasuea through out the day , short-term hot flashes , headaches , troubles sleeping, constantly tired, mood swings like crazy, and craving for anything salty and eating ice?? My other worries are that some of the symptoms are caused by my chain-smoking addiction to cigarettes and marijuana. And my biggest worry is, what if i am and i've been smoking cigarettes and marijuana!! Another worry is my boyfriend. He is 21 and we have already been involved with the police because of our age difference , but my parents dont care , and are actually quite fond of him. Will he get into trouble if i am? Anyway , please give me some feedback , ANYTHING!! ~Extremely desperate.

yes he will get in trouble and should...something is seriously wrong with a 20 something yr old if they are with a 14 yr old child.. he needs help.

those symptoms can also be from ur drug use and not taking care of yourself. I would stop the drugs, stop the cigs, stop with having sex and stop hanging out with an adult taking advantage of a kid..(im sorr but it is the truth). I would go to the doctor tell them how your feeling and get them to take care of you....so that you can get ur life back on track..

your asking for help here, telling you this is help and is the proper thing to d for yourself..

i wish you the best and hope that you are not pregnant right now...i wish you the best getting off drugs and cigs and getting some decent things in your life..

good luck

 

[calm]

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