please need some advice

[klouise1993]

I found out I was 9 weeks pregnant about 3 weeks ago me and my partner was sooo thrilled we was planning everything like what their bedroom would be like that sort of stuff you know maybe we gave our hopes up a bit too much because 5 days later I woke up and found blood on the tissue and all of a sudden loads of blood just rushed out of me we didnt know what to do, my partner rung an ambulance and I was rushed to A&E, I had all the tests such as checking the blood clots and the horror came when the nurse had told us that I had a miscarriage since this happened 2 weeks ago I have felt nothing but guilt that maybe I could of done something to prevent this from happening ever since I stopped bleeding we have been trying again, i know doctors and nurses have said to wait till my first menstrual cycle but is it possible that i could become pregnant this soon after a miscarriage as I'm having symptoms such as sore boobs, back ache, headaches, tiredness all the symptoms i had when i was. I'm too scared to take a test because i don't want to be paranoid everytime i get like a twinge in my stomach can anyone please give me some advice please I'd really really appreciate it thank you in advance xx

 

[CastawayBride]

I found out I was 9 weeks pregnant about 3 weeks ago me and my partner was sooo thrilled we was planning everything like what their bedroom would be like that sort of stuff you know maybe we gave our hopes up a bit too much because 5 days later I woke up and found blood on the tissue and all of a sudden loads of blood just rushed out of me we didnt know what to do, my partner rung an ambulance and I was rushed to A&E, I had all the tests such as checking the blood clots and the horror came when the nurse had told us that I had a miscarriage since this happened 2 weeks ago I have felt nothing but guilt that maybe I could of done something to prevent this from happening ever since I stopped bleeding we have been trying again, i know doctors and nurses have said to wait till my first menstrual cycle but is it possible that i could become pregnant this soon after a miscarriage as I'm having symptoms such as sore boobs, back ache, headaches, tiredness all the symptoms i had when i was. I'm too scared to take a test because i don't want to be paranoid everytime i get like a twinge in my stomach can anyone please give me some advice please I'd really really appreciate it thank you in advance xx

So sorry for your loss....

At 9 weeks your HCG is pretty high and will take time to come down, average time is 4-6 weeks. They say wait for the first AF for dating purposes and b/c often you will not ovulate before your first AF. You may ovulate though! So in a sense you could be pregnant before an AF would show.

As for all the symptoms sadly it takes time for your body to realize you are no longer pregnant. That and if their are some tid bits left that need to come out your body is going to do what it needs to get the tissues and blood out before new lining can develop.

Test until you get a negative, then you will know when you have a true positive, or if something is not right.

Hang in there...take this time to heal. Before you know it you will be able to try again!

 

[klouise1993]

Thank you so much for replying I just haven't got many people to talk about this with. I just think I'm getting my hopes up too much again I guess thank you again for replying xx

 

[CastawayBride]

Thank you so much for replying I just haven't got many people to talk about this with. I just think I'm getting my hopes up too much again I guess thank you again for replying xx

I was there hun, I know how it is. Time to be a bit "selfish" do you, get your nails done, go out with friends/your hunny and try to get back to the TTC shape...before you know it you will be waiting for your test to be positive again...

 

[klouise1993]

Thank you so much hopefully things will be back to normal soon xx