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hey ladies well first off ill tell you a little bout me, im now 9 weeks along at 6 weeks i had small spotting and showed by ultra sound baby was ok heart beat and all , and 7 weeks again baby fine, well i started cramping couple days ago went into doc they did blood work and then told me i have to have a u/s right away they think im m/c im not bleeding at all and my cervix is closed, well went in today for ultra sound saw baby saw it move saw heart beat and all. well then they said they where worried cuz my placenta looked splotchy, well the doc just called me and told me im more than likley loosing the baby. my placenta doesnt look good and is showing m/c im so sad iv never had a m/c i dont know what to execpt the doc said i have to stop smoking now . and drink fluids and that i have to go in every 48 hours for bloods to see if level is rising our falling, right now my blood hcg level is normal for 9 weeks but they are saying my placenta is not good . plz tell me some one has gone thru this plz im not bleeding at all well yet and my cramps are not that bad just every now and then. they said i may just go on to having a healthy baby but right now it dont look very promising. thanks ladies. thank you im just sad i dont know what to do....
 
Hi

I am so sorry to read your news. This must be such a hard waiting game for you at the moment. I really hope you have lots of support there with you. While there is a small chance, hold it tight. Sending lots of good wishes to you. I'm thinking of you.

:hugs:
 
sorry for your news but a hope your lo stays in there and hangs on tight i hope you will be fine hun xx
 
thank you ladies, i just dont understand they keep telling me the baby is fine . its my placenta is showing early m/c
 
I am so sorry to hear that you are going through this. It sounds very scary. All you can do is do what the medical proffesionals are telling you with no smoking, and fluids. I would also put myself on bedrest. That is all you can do. I agree with Mrs. G, so long as there is hope...cling to it. Hope is not a bad thing. I will say a prayer for you...and please keep us updated.
Tina x0x
 
thank you ladies i am holding on to anything i got left , im not bleeding at all and like i said i didnt have cramps all the time just certain times during the day i thought either uti our ligemants streching. i will keep you all updated. thank you for caring and being here for me
 
I hope things are looking better now hunny
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hey ladies thank you all of you well i dont have much to update, but i do maby have light at the end of the tunnel i hope, well after talking to hubby last night we found the doc told me that iwas going to lose the baby but he told him that if my numbers hcg stay going up its a great sign adn thats why they are monitoring me, and some other things, he still dont know the name of what the rediogist called my placenta, but any ways i went into lab today to have my bloods done to check the levels, and the lady who did it has been working at the hospital along time, i asked her does she know how many of these i will have and she said some ladies come in for weeks, then she asked me are you high risk i said no then she asked what happend then for them to test you like this , i explained to her step by step. i had slight crampiness felt like pulling in my oveies hip area , ( not pelvic ) so i called nurse just to ask what this could be then the new doc was like come in iv never seen him before ever. and he said this could be 1 of 3 things uti, bacteria infection our m/c ( he said nothing about streching, ) so he examined me told me im not bleeding which i new already and then told me my cervix is closed and that he felt it was a m/c why i dont know, then said i need bloods done to check levels hcg and then wanted u/s to check for a heart beat. so i had bloods done then went for u/s and then the radiogist told me the baby was fine and heart rate good everything looks great for 9 weeks the only thing he saw was a little bit of splotchyness on my placenta it was a small area could be nothing he said it could just be my body and that they would like to see a smooth placenta he said they may want anthother u/s to check it they would let me know, i said ok then radiogist congradulated me on baby and pg and left . so then the doc that i seen the day b4 calls me at 4pm and tells me how are you i said ok lot better kinda sore still, ( well wouldnt you after a half hour of havin a u/s thing stuck up your crotch) i didnt say that part and then he said ya im sure its already started i said what and he was like the radiogist called me and told me your placenta is showing you are going to have a early m/c i said what he didnt tell me that he said he saw splotchyness on my placenta that was it, and then the doc said well wait for the bleeding and what not , i had hubby talk after that iwas crying, so im so confused. well then after telling the lady that she was like who was the doc i told her who and she said did you know he just got his licance to practice and he just started here and this is the first hospital hes worked at and she dont like him and said he had no right saying i am m/c without exact info, then asked me who was the radiogist i explaind what he looked like and she said he also just started there and she thinks they both have no clue what they are talking about she said as long as she has worked at the hospital she has never heard anything like that . i told her my hcg level the day of the apt was at the right stage and iv had 2 other u/s why didnt they see it then and at my u/s at 6 weeks they said my placenta was fine. so she said i should get a 2nd opinion and talk right to my doc for my pg and not this guy . i know its not much hope but its somthing i can atleast hold on to. i told the lady i am not bleeding the baby showed fine at 9 weeks i know for now . and i dont understand we even asked the doc what they are calling my placenta he was like i dont know im just telling you what i was told that the radiogist saw somthing on your placenta. so ladies here i am i know its not much of a update and iv googled everything and i cant find anything . im not bleeding i have a lot and i mean a lot of white thick discharge cramps well to me they just feel like im streching our a pulled mucle feeling im not in pain and the cramps are in my overis and hips and thys. im constipated and no lowere back pain. so ladies does this make any sense to you. i hope so . i go back monday for more bloods please pray they go up.. thank you
 
im praying for u hunni dont understand this wish they would make more sense for u i hope bubs holds on tight xx
 
me to nice to hear from you tonight ya the one huge thing i dont understand the doc and the radiogist told us the baby is fine , and the doctor said its not the baby causing the m/c at all its the placenta so im thinking what your telling me my baby has a heart beat and is growing fine so my placenta is just gunna shove it out, i dont understand this. wish someone did for me
 
Oh sweetie, just hang in there. Let us know what happens tomorrow. X
 
hey ladies well i woke up im not in any pain at all my cramps i had are gone. not bleeding still i know im holding on to any hope . i did look up stuff on baby asprin also i new a lady who took it for re accuring m/c also and its supposed to help so for the last 3 days iv been taking baby asprin 1 a day. im hoping it helps i read some where it helps send blood to the placenta . thanks ladies i go tommrow for another blood test i wont get the results untill later tommrow .
 
Did the doc recommend baby asprin? I'd be careful to take medication when I'm not sure what the problem is. Most people take baby asprin for blood clotting.
 

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