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Hi,
I am new to this section, and its all a bit of a blur to me at the moment as im upset at what ive been told about Harrison.
I knew he was speech delayed, and through my health visitor and his nursery we got him refered for speech therapy. When he was seen by the speech therapist she agreed that he was speech and language delayed and that she would review him again in a couple of months. She also noticed the he hand rubs when he is excited and pulls a grimace like face. Harrison has done this for as long as I remember, when he gets excited he rubs his hands together furiously and makes a face. We discussed this and his s/t said she was going to note it down as it wasn't usual behaviour.
She reviewed him again in the middle of October, and I rang her about a week later. What she told me has really upset me, and I have today received a copy of his report. It basically says that although his language has improved, his play skills are delayed for his age, he plays on his own most of the time and seems unaware of others around him. He also does repetitive play. He plays alongside peers and remains fairly isolated - he moves away when others want to play with him and he will watch others play, but won't join in. His eye contact isn't great and he talks to people without gaining their attention and he is still hand rubbing and pulling faces. Harrison is also sensitive to sound - fireworks have been awful this year, he had to go to bed with ear defenders on as otherwise he would scream with fright when the fireworks went off - not just scared but absolutley terrified. He gets like this with loud sounds, fire alarms, loud moterbikes etc.
This is pointing towards him being on the autistic spectrum (both the s/t and the other nursery he goes to have mentioned it), and I am so upset. He has been reffered to a specialist and I know a diagnosis will help in the long run, and I want him to have all the help he can get. I just can't stop reading the bits in the report where he seems to play on his own all the time or is observed watching other children play without joining in. I have visions of him constantly being on his own and being so lonely
I am new to this section, and its all a bit of a blur to me at the moment as im upset at what ive been told about Harrison.
I knew he was speech delayed, and through my health visitor and his nursery we got him refered for speech therapy. When he was seen by the speech therapist she agreed that he was speech and language delayed and that she would review him again in a couple of months. She also noticed the he hand rubs when he is excited and pulls a grimace like face. Harrison has done this for as long as I remember, when he gets excited he rubs his hands together furiously and makes a face. We discussed this and his s/t said she was going to note it down as it wasn't usual behaviour.
She reviewed him again in the middle of October, and I rang her about a week later. What she told me has really upset me, and I have today received a copy of his report. It basically says that although his language has improved, his play skills are delayed for his age, he plays on his own most of the time and seems unaware of others around him. He also does repetitive play. He plays alongside peers and remains fairly isolated - he moves away when others want to play with him and he will watch others play, but won't join in. His eye contact isn't great and he talks to people without gaining their attention and he is still hand rubbing and pulling faces. Harrison is also sensitive to sound - fireworks have been awful this year, he had to go to bed with ear defenders on as otherwise he would scream with fright when the fireworks went off - not just scared but absolutley terrified. He gets like this with loud sounds, fire alarms, loud moterbikes etc.
This is pointing towards him being on the autistic spectrum (both the s/t and the other nursery he goes to have mentioned it), and I am so upset. He has been reffered to a specialist and I know a diagnosis will help in the long run, and I want him to have all the help he can get. I just can't stop reading the bits in the report where he seems to play on his own all the time or is observed watching other children play without joining in. I have visions of him constantly being on his own and being so lonely