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angelmommy13
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Hello all,
I'm new to this Baby&Bump website, but I'd like to share my story.
My partner and I were together for 5 months when I got pregnant in January 2013, unexpectedly considering I was on birth control from a previous relationship. I missed a night of birth control and got pregnant. I didn't know I was pregnant, I still had my periods with the birth control that's how I didn't know. My partner is in the military, so it was kind of difficult as he was in Camp Lejeune when we discovered we were pregnant 3 days BEFORE my MC was confirmed and I was alone with my mom.
I took a test the morning of April 21st, 2013 and it was an immediate
I couldn't believe it. I was ECSTATIC !!!! I told my partner, whom was excited as well, but we somehow kind of assumed I was pregnant before we found out because I'd been very very exhausted before, and i was fatigue, etc.
I started passing clots over the weekend, I just assumed it was my heavy flow (I'd been having heavy flows). My mom reassured me everything was okay, but I overheard a conversation of her on the phone with my partner saying she was sure I was miscarrying.
I didn't want to believe it, I wanted to believe that I was going to be having a baby. The day I found out I was pregnant, we took my brother to the airport, who had NO IDEA I got a test.
On Monday, April 24th, 2013 (I remember this visit like it was yesterday), I went to family planning for a urine test and to be reassured that everything was okay, but it wasn't. The nurse told me the test was negative and that it was a miscarriage.
She felt my cervix and told me, "You were in early pregnancy." I immediately started bawling. It was like my heart was ripped out of my body. I was assuming with how much clots I was passing, that my baby had passed over the weekend. She told me I wouldn't be seeing much anymore such as tiny bits of the baby considering how early I was (approx 3 1/2 mths by conception date of 1/28/2013). I never had an ultrasound, I never had bloodwork, I wish I did. I wish I seen an OBGYN beforehand. I regret not seeing a Dr, I know I cannot change the fact that I am a mother to an angel, but it is SO heartbreaking.
Now, we are in the process of TTC our rainbow, hopefully it happens.
Baby
to you all!!
I'm new to this Baby&Bump website, but I'd like to share my story.
My partner and I were together for 5 months when I got pregnant in January 2013, unexpectedly considering I was on birth control from a previous relationship. I missed a night of birth control and got pregnant. I didn't know I was pregnant, I still had my periods with the birth control that's how I didn't know. My partner is in the military, so it was kind of difficult as he was in Camp Lejeune when we discovered we were pregnant 3 days BEFORE my MC was confirmed and I was alone with my mom.
I took a test the morning of April 21st, 2013 and it was an immediate
I couldn't believe it. I was ECSTATIC !!!! I told my partner, whom was excited as well, but we somehow kind of assumed I was pregnant before we found out because I'd been very very exhausted before, and i was fatigue, etc.I started passing clots over the weekend, I just assumed it was my heavy flow (I'd been having heavy flows). My mom reassured me everything was okay, but I overheard a conversation of her on the phone with my partner saying she was sure I was miscarrying.
I didn't want to believe it, I wanted to believe that I was going to be having a baby. The day I found out I was pregnant, we took my brother to the airport, who had NO IDEA I got a
test. On Monday, April 24th, 2013 (I remember this visit like it was yesterday), I went to family planning for a urine test and to be reassured that everything was okay, but it wasn't. The nurse told me the test was negative and that it was a miscarriage.
She felt my cervix and told me, "You were in early pregnancy." I immediately started bawling. It was like my heart was ripped out of my body. I was assuming with how much clots I was passing, that my baby had passed over the weekend. She told me I wouldn't be seeing much anymore such as tiny bits of the baby considering how early I was (approx 3 1/2 mths by conception date of 1/28/2013). I never had an ultrasound, I never had bloodwork, I wish I did. I wish I seen an OBGYN beforehand. I regret not seeing a Dr, I know I cannot change the fact that I am a mother to an angel, but it is SO heartbreaking.
Now, we are in the process of TTC our rainbow, hopefully it happens.
Baby
to you all!!
