Oh gosh. At 6 weeks, I still looked super pregnant. I put on 50lbs and had a massive belly as my son was nearly 9lbs and hung out at the front most of the time lol.
I just gained all over though. A lot of it was water because 10 came off within a week, then the next 20 just melted off in the first 3 months.
I hit my "official" pre-pregnancy weight around 6 months and now I've lost a couple more pounds but I haven't been eating well so now I have no butt. Enjoy the post-pregnancy butt, seriously. Hahaha.
But really. I have always had weight issues and self esteem... uncertainties, but I wish I had cared less about that in the beginning and just focused more on being healthy and happy. I'm almost 8 months PP now. The beginning months are so rough but they fly by, in all honesty.
I still need to work on toning my belly/thighs but I'm not even worried right now. I only worked out for a couple months (about month 3 and 4) and did one video 5 days a week called "Standing Ab Exercises", much gentler than crunches, and I did the "squats challenge" the next month. Can't remember specifics but they should be easy to find on google.
Both worked amazingly well and I lost over 15lbs in that time.
I always write too much but. Lol. In short. Give yourself time. Try to focus on health rather than weight loss.
My goal was to be "back" by Halloween this year and I met it early without toooo much worrying or any crazy diets or exercise. The body knows what to do if you take care of it!