pregnant after amissed miscarriage and 2 complete miscarriages so scared :(

[lesley1988]

hi ive had 3 miscarriages missed misscarriage baby had stopped growing at 9 weeks 4 days and the 2 complete miscarriages at around 6 weeks im not 8 weeks 4 days and so scared of losing this baby i have had a early scan at 6 weeks 1 day and baby was fine heart was beating n everything but i just dont think i can be happy till after 12 weeks is anyone else feeling like this

 

[Courtney917]

hi ive had 3 miscarriages missed misscarriage baby had stopped growing at 9 weeks 4 days and the 2 complete miscarriages at around 6 weeks im not 8 weeks 4 days and so scared of losing this baby i have had a early scan at 6 weeks 1 day and baby was fine heart was beating n everything but i just dont think i can be happy till after 12 weeks is anyone else feeling like this

I have been feeling the exact same way. I've had 4 miscarriages all at 4 weeks but I'm so worried. I am almost 10 weeks and have to wait another two weeks for a scan and I am going nuts. I wish I could get a scan sooner for peace of mind.

 

[OliveLove]

I feel the same way, hun! I had only one MMC, but that's enough to feel like this one won't make it either. I found out about my angel at 11.5 weeks that it stopped growing at around 7/8. I fully miscarried at 13 weeks. Right now I'm only at 4 weeks and 3 days and it just feels like forever away until I feel secure enough.

 

[Courtney917]

I feel the same way, hun! I had only one MMC, but that's enough to feel like this one won't make it either. I found out about my angel at 11.5 weeks that it stopped growing at around 7/8. I fully miscarried at 13 weeks. Right now I'm only at 4 weeks and 3 days and it just feels like forever away until I feel secure enough.

Just out of curiosity, did the both of you see your LO with strong heartbeats before your losses? I'm going crazy with worry

 

[OliveLove]

I feel the same way, hun! I had only one MMC, but that's enough to feel like this one won't make it either. I found out about my angel at 11.5 weeks that it stopped growing at around 7/8. I fully miscarried at 13 weeks. Right now I'm only at 4 weeks and 3 days and it just feels like forever away until I feel secure enough.

Just out of curiosity, did the both of you see your LO with strong heartbeats before your losses? I'm going crazy with worry

No, my midwife tried listening for the heartbeat with a doppler at 9 weeks and nothing. She said it's common and nothing to worry about, so I returned at 11.4 weeks and she tried again, and still nothing. She had a worried look on her face and suggested an ultra sound right away. What I saw was a 6 week old beanie and no heartbeat.

I'm sure you'll be OK, hun!

 

[lesley1988]

This is the first time ive seen my babies heart beat through all 4 of my pregnancies and i dont get another scan till the 23rd of october. ive made an appointment for my gp hopefully i can get one sooner. i feel a little better when i wake up with sickness it stops me worrying thanks for the replies

 

[OliveLove]

This is the first time ive seen my babies heart beat through all 4 of my pregnancies and i dont get another scan till the 23rd of october. ive made an appointment for my gp hopefully i can get one sooner. i feel a little better when i wake up with sickness it stops me worrying thanks for the replies

That's a great sign!! Seeing the heartbeat! I thought I'd be dreading MS, but I'm waiting and praying i feel nauseous soon, LOL. I'm going to panic if it doesn't start within the next couple of weeks.