MommaBarry
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I'm not really sure where to post this, but I was wondering if anyone is currently pregnant and having their tubes tied after baby?
About me
I am 32, full time mom and student.
I have a 10 year old son (previous marriage)
A 11 month old daughter
And due beginning of January with a boy.
My DH says he does not want anymore children after our son is born. I agree since they are so close in age and financially I would love to be able to spoil them like I did with my 10 year old (only child for so long).
I am due to finish school next fall so our son will be almost 1 when I graduate and start working.
I agree with this decision to an extent and am ready to not be pregnant and raise our family. Im ready to have a relationship with my husband that does not consist of everything baby (don't get us wrong we love our kids to death!!! but you all know how that first year is) But part of my heart hurts to think there will never be another TTC, or BFP, or tiny newborn in the house.
Many people have told me just to wait to have my tubes tied. But my third will be like my other deliveries and will be born my C-section. So they will tie my tubes right after he is born. This means no additional recovery, and will be convenient. Not to mention, my insurance will pay for it 100% if I do it then.
I have heard its normal to feel this way, and that once my son arrives that I might feel different. A sense of completion to our family that I don't feel yet because he is not here.
If you have made it this far thank you
Im not quite sure what response im looking for here but maybe someone out there knows how I feel.
About me
I am 32, full time mom and student.
I have a 10 year old son (previous marriage)
A 11 month old daughter
And due beginning of January with a boy.
My DH says he does not want anymore children after our son is born. I agree since they are so close in age and financially I would love to be able to spoil them like I did with my 10 year old (only child for so long).
I am due to finish school next fall so our son will be almost 1 when I graduate and start working.
I agree with this decision to an extent and am ready to not be pregnant and raise our family. Im ready to have a relationship with my husband that does not consist of everything baby (don't get us wrong we love our kids to death!!! but you all know how that first year is) But part of my heart hurts to think there will never be another TTC, or BFP, or tiny newborn in the house.
Many people have told me just to wait to have my tubes tied. But my third will be like my other deliveries and will be born my C-section. So they will tie my tubes right after he is born. This means no additional recovery, and will be convenient. Not to mention, my insurance will pay for it 100% if I do it then.
I have heard its normal to feel this way, and that once my son arrives that I might feel different. A sense of completion to our family that I don't feel yet because he is not here.
If you have made it this far thank you
Im not quite sure what response im looking for here but maybe someone out there knows how I feel.