pregnant friend drinking is making me see red

[lilesMom]

i only buy for my god children now really and my closest siblings
its gotten too big
im not throwing up yet thank god but i just cant eat for nausea sometimes r can only stomach specific things, but i seem to get a few hrs break most days so its not unbearable, but it is hard to be healthy when food is making u sick.,
all i want is wholegrain things so its not awfull but im not gettin 5 a day at all lately.

 

[Tournesol]

I'm barely getting 1 a day, let alone 5!
Don't throw up if you can help it, once I started I couldn't stop, it's awful.
I've been taking a herbal remedy called Nux Vomica for the last few days, which actually seems to be helping, so look for that if you're feeling really bad.

 

[Mizze]

My last cigarette was the weekend I concieved Caitlyn. I'd smoked for years gave up, went back, gave up etc. Gave up the moment I got my bfp on the miscarriages and went back with a vengeance when the mmcs happened - fags and booze in abundance - no self destructive tendencies there then! Decided before Caitlyn that I'd get fit and healthy before ttc again, went away for an anniversary weekend and bang -bfp. I was very lucky in that I too got the switch in my head which said "pregnant=no fags". That's 2 & 1/2 years ago now.


Mizze x

 

[JennyBLove]

Sorry but that girl drinking is a straight Loser!!! Wow id wanna kick her in her face! How pathetic she must be. Her baby will have alcohol fetal syndrom which shee will have to liive with forever, they say tons of babies are born with it, most end up in jail if its not noticable, they just have mental issuues but ones that suffer horribly from it are severly n I mean severly agitile children that are very violent and have distinct features. I was a pca for the sick, n thought once about a job for a kid that was, but they said I needed experience with violent children, n that scared me. Poor baby!! Shes a worthless mother, n should nvr have gotte pregnant, n if there was such a thing as calling in a line to report what shes doing I would n make sure her kid was takn away from her as she dorles not deserve that child. Shes careless n selfish. Poor baby. I feel no remorse and how can she even tell anyone that she is or that sticking to wine is ok, or partyin even, I hope she suffers. Sounds mean but, what shes doing is horrid n sickening. Ugh.

 

[JennyBLove]

I would tell everyone what shes doing

 

[lilesMom]

tournesol , im a big baby when it comes to throwing up, il actually swallow it back down rather than let it out (sorry tmi ) , i fight it all the way. having said that it may get hte better of me, sometimes it refuses to stay down hoping that wont happen
sorry u r having such a hard time from it xxxxxxxxxxx glad ur remedy is workin a little xxxxxxxxxxxx

mizze well done on giving up chick, it is hard but doable xxxxxxxxxx

jenny they know anyway hon, she doesnt hide it, i do feel really bad for her baby though. she is actually a nice girl so thats doubly why i dont understand it .
she has another son who she is always goin on about so i find it really weird that she does it. she drank when preg with him too.
il never understand it i suppose , cos its something i wouldnt do in a million yrs xxxx
ur 9 weeks ur ticker says hon, how u feelin? xx

 

[JennyBLove]

Yeah thas horrid, shes sounds like a horrible person/mom. Yeah cant wait for appointmnt nxt monday, feelin very nervous, symptoms are pretty good not as much nausea now, very tired always, and horomonal lol u?

 

[lilesMom]

pretty much the same jenny nausea i have good days and bad days
im always tired and get pretty emotional sometimes but its all for a great cause

 

[JennyBLove]

Thats good ugh today takn a shower just seemed hard wrk. Feelin sick after. Also my man just broke up with me so feelin even sicker. Im glad things are goin good for you n cant wait for appntmnt, whens urs?

 

[lilesMom]

oh god jenny thats awfull, is it just a spat u think? xx
i had my U/s today, my baby has a heartbeat so happy
it reduces my risk of mc so much

 

[JennyBLove]

Ugh I hope everything turns out by time babies born . ,not looin good now. Awww thats good to hear about ur baby!!!! Im happy for you. I cant wait for mine on monday nxt week!!! Seems like a great place since im switching. I saw the most amazing pic today that made me cry, this doc that does surgery on babies in the womb by taking uterus out, was helping a baby with spinabifida, and the baby reached out and gripped his finger during surgery!!! Only 21 wks old so amazing. N baby went on to live after biryh, but wouldnt have without that surgery. Aww

oh god jenny thats awfull, is it just a spat u think? xx
i had my U/s today, my baby has a heartbeat so happy
it reduces my risk of mc so much

 

[lilesMom]

i think pregnancy is a hard time for couples chick ,its a lot of extra pressure, best of luck, hope ye work it out xxx
wow thats amazing, i never heard of that, its unreal what docs can do isnt it

 

[JennyBLove]

Yeah, we were already having trouble from issues so I hope that he will come around sometime, just doesnt look like it. We live together n he moved me out of state for his job n I dont wrk, no car now, n nowhere else to go so I dunno what to do.

Its a pretty graphic detail n I dunno what u can stomach but if u can heres the link https://2.bp.blogspot.com/_qd7m9MQMDIQ/SaCeIMQX-vI/AAAAAAAAAiY/9qMcJ1nDfEM/s400/Samuelshand.jpg

Crazy stuff!! Ugh I just wanted too see what 9 week old fetus looked like n some horrible abortion pics came up!! Iused to live nxt door, sadly to a abortion clinic n so many people protested and prayed in front of the place daily, they even had a secret stand to yell at people that tryd to walk up to clinic, a church was right nxt door to it!! Ugh so awful. Yeah im so lazy, u feelin alot of symptoms? my breasts arnt as sore now n not as bad a nausea hope thats good thing! Laundry time.

 

[lilesMom]

hope it works out hon, these things can take time, how awful to feel stranded though. do u have someone u can go visit or are u really far from them ? xx
yeah i was looking up ways to prevent mc before and how to do a home abortion came up, i was sick.
my nausea is a bit better now yest and today but i seem to have traded it for heartburn

 

[JennyBLove]

Yeah im far far from them, but talk to some from my home state. Yeah I hope things will get better!! yeah me too, not sure how to tell if heartburn but a few hrs ago started getting this icky dull burning pain in between my ribs underneath bra, like top of tummy. It was after I ate it started. I ised to have ulcer when younger so not sure if its just irritated again or if its somthing else, but its not cool. Layin dwn or sitting dont hell. N also havnt really been able to go bm sry tmi except for just a lil every few days, dunno if thats connected with pain. But its not intestine cramps which is another horrid thing. Ugh. having tummy issues makes it worse I guess when preg. Thankfully havnt thrownup yet, took a zofran but didnt work for that!

 

[lilesMom]

my tummy is the same hon, im upping my fruit and veg and eating lots of whole grains and hoping that does the trick. i never had heartburn before im assuming its heartburn , cos it feels like what other people describe as heartburn
maybe that is ur ulcer hon cos ur stressed now too, would u ring ur doc? xxx
for heartburn lying down makes it worse cos its caused by acid coming back up from ur tummy . they say dont eat within 2 hrs of goin to bed, and sleep with ur head up a bit .
its meant to help anyway.

 

[JennyBLove]

Yeah I got it few days before my bfp too. So probably. Im not sure. I do wanna go see doc sooner n talk about things since im so stressed out...i just wanna make sure babies okay!! Yeah I thought for sure milk would help but didnt

 

[lilesMom]

youghurt maybe ? bit more soothing than milk xxxxx
hope its better sooon hon xxxxx

 

[JennyBLove]

youghurt maybe ? bit more soothing than milk xxxxx
hope its better sooon hon xxxxx

Yeah ill try that!!! Gotta go shoppin today anyways but yeah feelin better today, hope its not a constant thing, I remember havin this feelin from certain antibiotics before but more of acid in throat.
Ugh I keep tryn call docs lol n first the transfer to me to employee line, then I call back n the girl is having a convo with me about her sister almost like I wasnt on the line n she was talkin to someone else. Lol one time I workd for a telemarketing n called someone n they answered, then someone else answered, and they said "this is my number" then the other person said "no this is my number" lol dumb phone issues lol. Wierd.
Anyways im so hurt my guy doesnt want it to work, I still have to live here, but he never comes home at night for last week, was first at his mas for weeks, then now his friends he goes out n stays out all night. I think hes seein someobe else too. Who knows, but either way he acts like he doesnt care n doesnt love me anymore.
how you feeling today?

 

[lilesMom]

i dont have any good advice really chick, im sorry things arent goin well for ye, did u call him, will he talk to u? he doesnt sound like he is treatin u very well hon. xx

im alright babe, i feel very not pregnant today which is a bit freaky. i should just be glad i have a break from being sick but tomor is the day my last pregnancy stopped growing, but i was still sick last time and i heard the heartbeat yest so should be fine. x