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The reason I say this is because before now me and my daughter had a good relationship, if she was naughty she was punished and accepted her punishment.
Now she fights me, only yesterday I refused to allow her to eat chocolate before her tea (beef steak and veg) and she threatened to phone the police and tell them I am starving her (by the way she is the tallest in her class and a little chunky) I ignored her and just repeated if she carries on she won't have the chocolate even after tea, she followed me into the back garden while I carried a bin to the back on the garden to empty water out only for her to block the path, I told her to move, stop being silly and go and eat, she refused and pushed the bin into my belly.
She was sent to the hall and she just kicked and screamed. I don't know what to do?? We have always managed to discuss what happened and why.
I spoke to my husband (he works away and he comes home every 2 weeks for a weekend) and he says 'oh just smack her', I don't think smacking helps. Today she wasn't allowed to wear her sandals, have pop in her water bottle or use her scooter to go to school with but these punishments are not that effective, she forgets about them as soon as she leaves the house.
She really wanted a baby sibling and has been going on about it for years, I have not ignored her in any way, and is involved with anything baby. It seems she sees me as weak now I am pregnant and she doesn't have to listen to me.
Sorry I have rambled on but I don't really have anyone to talk to and OH just gets angry and says smack or he says shes 6 and you can't control her like its my fault.
The reason I say this is because before now me and my daughter had a good relationship, if she was naughty she was punished and accepted her punishment.
Now she fights me, only yesterday I refused to allow her to eat chocolate before her tea (beef steak and veg) and she threatened to phone the police and tell them I am starving her (by the way she is the tallest in her class and a little chunky) I ignored her and just repeated if she carries on she won't have the chocolate even after tea, she followed me into the back garden while I carried a bin to the back on the garden to empty water out only for her to block the path, I told her to move, stop being silly and go and eat, she refused and pushed the bin into my belly.
She was sent to the hall and she just kicked and screamed. I don't know what to do?? We have always managed to discuss what happened and why.
I spoke to my husband (he works away and he comes home every 2 weeks for a weekend) and he says 'oh just smack her', I don't think smacking helps. Today she wasn't allowed to wear her sandals, have pop in her water bottle or use her scooter to go to school with but these punishments are not that effective, she forgets about them as soon as she leaves the house.
She really wanted a baby sibling and has been going on about it for years, I have not ignored her in any way, and is involved with anything baby. It seems she sees me as weak now I am pregnant and she doesn't have to listen to me.
Sorry I have rambled on but I don't really have anyone to talk to and OH just gets angry and says smack or he says shes 6 and you can't control her like its my fault.