Temg
Pregnant with #3
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I'm a bit confused and as DH and I aren't singing off the same hymn sheet right now I'm writing here.
DD had a mild speech delay according to HV who referred her for speech and lanuage. While at the appointment the speech therapist went through developmental checks and she picked up the my DS had some very worrying signs and needed to see a S&L therapist and OT asap.
SO he had his OT appointment (still waiting on the speech) and got a long report that said he needed an urgent multi disciplinary assessment as his dyspraxia and sensory integration dysfunction along with other worrying signs where point towards Autism Spectrum Disorders.
So he is now waiting for a multidisciplinary assessment which is in early next year.
Today I got a call from my GP who read the report today (only 3 months after her got it ) and said he found it very concerning also but thinks that there is s much going on with DS and he has so many needs that he needs to see a paediatrician instead. If I turn down the early intervention team assessment, we will have to pay ourselves afterwards. THe GP thinks that he needs ot see the paediatrician first because if the autism team give him a 'label' it will be stuck, regardless if it is found out later to be not true.
Help!!! I don't know what to do. DH is against all assessments altogether, he sees nothing wrong, he thinks half DS's class and half his football team are worse than DS but DH see's him maybe once a week during the day as he works everyday long hours! I can't see DH agreeing to see the paeds and the EIT. He has already said, if it is all found out to be nothing then DS is going to turn around to us in the future and ask why we put him through it all for nothing.
This is very stressful, and very lonely
DD had a mild speech delay according to HV who referred her for speech and lanuage. While at the appointment the speech therapist went through developmental checks and she picked up the my DS had some very worrying signs and needed to see a S&L therapist and OT asap.
SO he had his OT appointment (still waiting on the speech) and got a long report that said he needed an urgent multi disciplinary assessment as his dyspraxia and sensory integration dysfunction along with other worrying signs where point towards Autism Spectrum Disorders.
So he is now waiting for a multidisciplinary assessment which is in early next year.
Today I got a call from my GP who read the report today (only 3 months after her got it ) and said he found it very concerning also but thinks that there is s much going on with DS and he has so many needs that he needs to see a paediatrician instead. If I turn down the early intervention team assessment, we will have to pay ourselves afterwards. THe GP thinks that he needs ot see the paediatrician first because if the autism team give him a 'label' it will be stuck, regardless if it is found out later to be not true.
Help!!! I don't know what to do. DH is against all assessments altogether, he sees nothing wrong, he thinks half DS's class and half his football team are worse than DS but DH see's him maybe once a week during the day as he works everyday long hours! I can't see DH agreeing to see the paeds and the EIT. He has already said, if it is all found out to be nothing then DS is going to turn around to us in the future and ask why we put him through it all for nothing.
This is very stressful, and very lonely