suzanne108
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When did you first have a night out since having your LO? Or since FOB leaving?
My friends seem to think its easy for me to just dump Lola on my mum so that I can go out for the night. Actually the last thing I want to do is go get drunk and if my mum said she'd look after Lola for the night all I'd want to do is curl up in bed with a book or a dvd lol, then get 8 hours much needed SLEEP!! Lola is such a bad sleeper that it wouldn't be fair to leave her with my mum especially to go out doing something I don't wanna do!!
Just feeling a bit at the moment. I feel so lonely my friends don't understand at all that my life has changed. I keep asking them to do things at weekends in the daytimes and they always say they are doing something else but free thurs night or fri night...always nights!
I can't even have them here when Lola is in bed because although her bedtime routine starts at 6.30-7 she constantly wakes up until about 9-10pm. And it isn't just a quick 5 minutes while I settle her, it can take half an hour.
I've explained all this to them but they don't seem to be taking it in.
Sorry it wasn't supposed to turn into a rant! They are just making me feel abnormal for not being able to go out?
I've kinda given up contacting them anymore because I just can't be bothered with it. But then Saturday I was in tears on my mum because I've got no friends anymore and just feel so lonely
I wish there was a bnb-er that lived near me
Thanks for getting this far!
My friends seem to think its easy for me to just dump Lola on my mum so that I can go out for the night. Actually the last thing I want to do is go get drunk and if my mum said she'd look after Lola for the night all I'd want to do is curl up in bed with a book or a dvd lol, then get 8 hours much needed SLEEP!! Lola is such a bad sleeper that it wouldn't be fair to leave her with my mum especially to go out doing something I don't wanna do!!
Just feeling a bit at the moment. I feel so lonely my friends don't understand at all that my life has changed. I keep asking them to do things at weekends in the daytimes and they always say they are doing something else but free thurs night or fri night...always nights!
I can't even have them here when Lola is in bed because although her bedtime routine starts at 6.30-7 she constantly wakes up until about 9-10pm. And it isn't just a quick 5 minutes while I settle her, it can take half an hour.
I've explained all this to them but they don't seem to be taking it in.
Sorry it wasn't supposed to turn into a rant! They are just making me feel abnormal for not being able to go out?
I've kinda given up contacting them anymore because I just can't be bothered with it. But then Saturday I was in tears on my mum because I've got no friends anymore and just feel so lonely
I wish there was a bnb-er that lived near me
Thanks for getting this far!