Alpinestars
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This may turn into a ramble so apologies in advance ! I've only very recently suffered from a MC at 9weeks and I'm 35 in august DH and I are blessed with children but in my heart I never felt complete so we TTC and got our BFP in February
Although I'm completely devastated that we lost our much wanted baby, already I know I would like TTC again in the future DH and I have yet to really talk as we are both hurting but showing our pain in different ways DH is unsure if he wants to TTC again as he doesn't want to see me go through the pain if we were to MC again Luckily we are going on a fortnights holiday to Menorca very soon so we both agreed to make time on holiday to talk Whatever the outcome I know we will support each other and get through these dark days
But I have so many thoughts in my head whizzing round at the moment I know I need to take time but i find comfort from other peoples experiences
So did you know you wanted to TTC after your Loss ??
How long did you wait to actively TTC when did you feel ready ?
What were/are DH/DP feelings
Did you take supplements or have a Pre TTC plan ?
Any advice or information you would like to share?
I'm sorry, I know DH and I need to really talk, but I can't help the way I feel, three(+) months ago I wanted a child, 3 days ago I was carrying that child, now I'll never hold that child, but I'm back to three(+)months ago when I really wanted another child
Sorry for rambling
Jo
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Although I'm completely devastated that we lost our much wanted baby, already I know I would like TTC again in the future DH and I have yet to really talk as we are both hurting but showing our pain in different ways DH is unsure if he wants to TTC again as he doesn't want to see me go through the pain if we were to MC again Luckily we are going on a fortnights holiday to Menorca very soon so we both agreed to make time on holiday to talk Whatever the outcome I know we will support each other and get through these dark days
But I have so many thoughts in my head whizzing round at the moment I know I need to take time but i find comfort from other peoples experiences
So did you know you wanted to TTC after your Loss ??
How long did you wait to actively TTC when did you feel ready ?
What were/are DH/DP feelings
Did you take supplements or have a Pre TTC plan ?
Any advice or information you would like to share?
I'm sorry, I know DH and I need to really talk, but I can't help the way I feel, three(+) months ago I wanted a child, 3 days ago I was carrying that child, now I'll never hold that child, but I'm back to three(+)months ago when I really wanted another child
Sorry for rambling
Jo
X