Ran into LO with ex and his gf

[Ginger84]

Warning, this is a pity post but needed to get it out there.

Ex came to pick LO this afternoon for the evening. Fine. Anyways as soon as he left i went up to tesco do do some shopping only to see ex with our DS and his girlfriend (who i have not met yet) there.

Anyways i carried on doing my shopping and then saw them at the till, she knows who i am and blantently clocked me, she then reached out to grab my DS from his dad and gave him a cuddle- WTF?!

By the time i got to the end of the ailse she saw that i was heading over and quickly gave him back to his dad. I went straight over and grabbed him off his dad. Got a quick introduction whilst i was talking my my son.

The whole time i was shaking and felt physically sick, it was awful and i didn't want to hand my son back over. Am supposed to be going out tonight but now feel completely shit.

I want to get over this pain but it just comes creaping back when i least expect it

 

[KayteeB]

the pain your feeling is completely normal hun and i thinks its awful your ex introduced LO to his new girlfriend without introducing you to her first and making sure you agreed with it. You have a right to know who your baby boy is mixing with

Do not let it ruin your night out and make sure you make a big fuss when you next see him

 

[CrazyBird]

I would have done exactly the same and gone over and grabbed LO, especially if I was in your situation. What the hell was his GF doing picking your son up just because she saw you. Was she trying to make you jealous or something. How dare she after what she has put you through going off with a married man.

I've read some of your posts on here and I think you sound very strong after what u have been through.

The pain will go over time and your ex will realise what a huge mistake he has made when you meet a better man and he see's that you and your son are happy.

xx

 

[Ginger84]

Thanks ladies for your support, glad to hear im not the only one who thought this was wrong.

Im determined to have a fresh start this year and im going to try and not let little things stress me out and upset me - Easier said than done!

 

[21Rach]

Ican sympathise fob has introduced DS to his various gf's in the almost 2 years we have been separated and has not introduced me to them. It won't help to hear but it gets so much easier over time. I sobbed my heart out first time... Now I don't give a rats ass! All that matters is our children have the consistency of us being their primary caregiver, and this is probably a novelty to them. And the main thing.. You are irreplaceable to your child. Never forget that xxxxxxx