totallyashley
Mummy to a little girl
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Okay so let me give you a little history. My parents moved to Spain to open a boat rental place on the coast about 3 years before they had me. They had me and then 2 years later they had my sister and then 2 years after that they had my brother. When my Mum got pregnant my parents started to have a few issues to put it nicely. 3 days after my brother was born, 1 day after my Mum came out of hospital they split up and my Dad moved into the boat shop for the next 3 months in which time we moved back to England. My Dad went through a bit of a breakdown just before and then after they split up and because of that we didn't see him for about a year. He came over for my brothers first birthday and then went back to Spain a week later. We use to talk on the phone every 3ish days until my Mum met my step-dad. My Dad got really angry over this and we lost contact for about 4 years. I was about 9 when he got back in contact as he was getting remarried and they wanted us to be at the wedding. We went to Spain for that and then afterwards we stayed in contact for about 6 months. His new wife then got pregnant and the last we heard was that they had twins, a little girl and a little boy. Never met them. My step-dad brought us up and I love him like a Dad and he loves us like his own. He could never have his own so he spoiled us a lot. He shall be a brilliant Granddad!
When I got pregnant I didn't tell him as I didn't think it was really very important. He didn't care much about what I was doing and was a bit of a lazy father so I didn't really want him in Daisy's life, my step-dad will be enough. He sends us 2 presents at the end of every year, one for Christmas and one for our birthdays as he can't ever remember or be bothered to send it at the right time! The other day though my Dad added my brother and sister on facebook, I don't have it. He must have looked through there photos as he commented on one of my sisters photographs of me and FOB where I am about 25 weeks pregnant. He said "Your sister is pregnant?" My sister said "yeah" and he did a big old rant about how no one told him, how awful that is, I am ruining my life, I must be a slut, ect, ect. My sister stuck up for me and told him that he can't judge me as he doesn't know me and he was never a father to us and he never will be. She then deleted him off her and my brothers pages and told him to leave us alone.
I really hate him. He never cared about us like he does his new family. He has had another little girl since the twins. He never told us about her! Why does he make sure a big deal that we didn't tell him? He hasn't spoken to me since I was 10 and then makes all these horrible judgements against me!
Who is he to judge? He isn't a good Dad so he can't say anything about me becoming a Mum at 18! Arrgghh! I am so glad FOB is different to my biological Dad!
It is so unfair
Rant over. Anyone else had silly people like this?
When I got pregnant I didn't tell him as I didn't think it was really very important. He didn't care much about what I was doing and was a bit of a lazy father so I didn't really want him in Daisy's life, my step-dad will be enough. He sends us 2 presents at the end of every year, one for Christmas and one for our birthdays as he can't ever remember or be bothered to send it at the right time! The other day though my Dad added my brother and sister on facebook, I don't have it. He must have looked through there photos as he commented on one of my sisters photographs of me and FOB where I am about 25 weeks pregnant. He said "Your sister is pregnant?" My sister said "yeah" and he did a big old rant about how no one told him, how awful that is, I am ruining my life, I must be a slut, ect, ect. My sister stuck up for me and told him that he can't judge me as he doesn't know me and he was never a father to us and he never will be. She then deleted him off her and my brothers pages and told him to leave us alone.
I really hate him. He never cared about us like he does his new family. He has had another little girl since the twins. He never told us about her! Why does he make sure a big deal that we didn't tell him? He hasn't spoken to me since I was 10 and then makes all these horrible judgements against me!
Who is he to judge? He isn't a good Dad so he can't say anything about me becoming a Mum at 18! Arrgghh! I am so glad FOB is different to my biological Dad!It is so unfair
Rant over. Anyone else had silly people like this?
