Rant.. Only a little one though :)

[SarahhhLouise]

Im feeling a little stressed atm, it seems that all my OH wants to do is grope me and when right now im really not interested, and i feel bad on him in a way which i dont know why. My mum's jealousy is driving me crazy, as im looking after my niece's while they off school for my sister because all my mum and her husband do is argue. Its just the little digs i cant stand, And the fact i didnt ring her when i went for my emergency scan, im sorry but it wasnt the first thing on my mind to ring her as were not close, id rather cry down the phone to my dad, as it sounds weird but understanding and sympathetic. Plus looking after my sisters children who bicker all the time stresses me out because half the time i dont know what to tell them when they're arguing over who gets to playy bin weval (sp?) first. And i dont like having trapped wind all the time, i constantly feel the need to burp. The only thing keeping me getting through all this is to think i have my 12 week scan monday sorry for ranting just needed to let it all go before i go crazy. xx

 

[divershona]

don't worry about dtd ... i was exactly the same ... and believe me when ur sexdrive comes bk ur OH won't know what hit him lol

as for everything else, bug and hope it all gets sorted

 

[brunette&bubs]

I definitely know how you feel.
My OH and I used to dtd everyday!
Now I'm just uninterested but still do it to make him happy even though I don't really want to.
The other day WHILE we were dtd, he said something like how this is the only way he could get close to the baby!
WTF!!!!????
I was so disgusting and turned off, it was horrible.

So ladies in the 2nd trimester, is it true your sex drive goes through the roof in the 2nd tri?

 

[mayb_baby]

sex drive comes back

 

[brunette&bubs]

sex drive comes back

THANK GOD!

 

[newmommy23]

it comes back with a vengeance!

 

[divershona]

yeah definately back with avengence, being single probably doesnt help matters either but hey not alot a girl can do really hehe

 

[MissMamma]

Take a break from him. I went on holiday without him and was so desperate for sex when i got back he was the one turning me down!
Dont let it get to you hun, it'll come back. Promise ..xx

 

[SarahhhLouise]

thanks girls, i really dont feel like dtd. I wish i could take a holiday, i havent got the money atm. maybe when his parents go on holiday and he's working nights i will stay at home, which atm i just wanna go back home, i miss my double bed soo much and my comfy matress and my dad. but were planning on moving back to my house when we've decorated my room. It will be easier when i go back to college aswell, i wont be stuck in the house all the time, but on a happier note i have my 12 week scan monday and i cant wait to see my little baby, im getting far too excited xx

 

[emmylou209]

i wish mine would come back! its been bloody nearly 10 weeks since the last time! hopefully ur mom understands what you went though x

 

[Pixxie]

Mine hasnt 'come back' but its better than it was, OH leaves it until were going to bed to try it on though and by the time Im going to bed Im shattered and its the last thing on my mind! xx

 

[kattsmiles]

Mine has yet to come back and my DF just doesn't get it lol. I used to be the one trying to get in his pants and now it's the other way around

 

[Raspberries]

It doesn't always come back sadly or it does, but other things preoccupy your mind.

I didn't feel like it from I got a bump at about 16 weeks, til about a week or two ago, but then when we actually get down to it, its like ...so how are we going to do this? Quite a mood killer lol.
I'm just scared of the baby being squshed. (My OH isn't the lightest of men to put it nicely)

 

[kattsmiles]

It doesn't always come back sadly or it does, but other things preoccupy your mind.

I didn't feel like it from I got a bump at about 16 weeks, til about a week or two ago, but then when we actually get down to it, its like ...so how are we going to do this? Quite a mood killer lol.
I'm just scared of the baby being squshed. (My OH isn't the lightest of men to put it nicely)

The bump is definitely a mood killer! I'm barely showing but the baby does move constantly and I just can't get into it when my son is kicking me LOL

 

[SarahhhLouise]

My Oh always trys it on when we got to bed, or worse when hes on nights, he wakes me up when he gets home. im only just begining to show a little. Found out today that my OH cant come to my scan, feel really gutted now, hopefully he can persuade work to let him come. xxx