really didn't want to say this

[Jayden'sMummy]

But why!!! do lads have to be fucking pricks that wreck everything (sorry to lads on here, not intended for all lads)
You all know about how hard i am finding it to be nice to Adam right?

Well.. this takes the fucking piss this does! So it was the babies christening on Sunday (baby had a really great day) but Adam got on my nerves so so much!!!
For one he wasn't interested in the baby at all, i told him to feed him when we got the party an he fed him for 2 minutes then passed him on to everyone else then didn't see him the rest of the day apart from his mum + dad making them get a picture together. Then after his dad told me i wasn't allowed to invite my lad mates (so i didn't, so there wasn't any kick offs) and he goes and invites his mates and then they all pissed me of staring at me an smoking!
So his dad comes outside were i was sitting, trying to cool off and gives me the whole 'adult talk' thing and i explains EVERYTHING what i tell yous about him! and we sorts bits out and i walks off because i thought i will say something i regret, which i nearly did because he said we need to sit down, just me + Adam an sort things through + i said well if i was in a room with him on my own at the minute i would butt him
Am i out of order saying that like!

Then the cheeky **** (Adam) gets off with out saying bye or even telling me he was going, could have at least said bye to Jayden or gave him a kiss! i was about to go out to talk to him, explaining why i was upset/angry and sees him getting into the taxi with all his mates!!!


Well to top it all off, the thing i keep denying to myself is ... i think i still love him, it makes me angry when he does stuff like this because its kinda like i hate me for still liking him if you get me?

sorry for moaning about him again xx

 

[princess_x0]

Awe hun. I have no idea what to say. Apart from he's acting like a prick, and bringing his mates was bang out of order. Good on you for holding your tongue xx

 

[nikky0907]

He's behaviour is way out of order!

I can't belive it.He went from being such a great dad,totally in love with Jayden and now he pulls stuff like this! Just shows to prove how immature he is and the way he sees Jayden is like a toy he gets bored of.

I agree with Adam's dad,you need to talk to him and explain that if keeps on acting like this (especially smoking pot around the baby),you can get a court order for him not to see Jayden unless he proves clean of all drugs every week.

Because I think he needs a serious reality check.This is his son and he can't keep acting this selfish.
His sons christiening is not some 'party' for him and his friends to go have fun at.
And shame on him for making you upset on what is supposed to be a wonderful,enjoying moment in your sons life!

 

[Jayden'sMummy]

He's behaviour is way out of order!

I can't belive it.He went from being such a great dad,totally in love with Jayden and now he pulls stuff like this! Just shows to prove how immature he is and the way he sees Jayden is like a toy he gets bored of.

My mum says this, well not the great daddy part like lol but she says once the novelty has worn of he will stop wanting to see him etc but for Adams sake i hope that doesn't happen.

I agree with Adam's dad,you need to talk to him and explain that if keeps on acting like this (especially smoking pot around the baby),you can get a court order for him not to see Jayden unless he proves clean of all drugs every week.

I feel like if i go and speak to him, just me and him i will say something i regret, i know i have to learn to control my temper but its hard when he acts like such a ****!

Because I think he needs a serious reality check.This is his son and he can't keep acting this selfish.
His sons christiening is not some 'party' for him and his friends to go have fun at.

I know! i wish he would wake up and realize hes a dad now, even though it means him growing up mega quick it doesn't stop him being a teenager too, i am not telling him to stop smoking altogether, i just want him to accept his responsibilities before its too late.

And shame on him for making you upset on what is supposed to be a wonderful,enjoying moment in your sons life!

Thanks for the advice, just can't stand keeping all this in when he makes me soo soo angry even though i still like him wish i didn't, would make this so much easier to let go xx

 

[nikky0907]

Give it some time hun,thats the only thing I can advise...

 

[Irishmum]

Don't know what to say..... what an a***ole! He really hasn't a notion of what being a parent is about, does he?

As far as your feelings for him go.....ya can't help them really can ya hun? I mean if we could chose stuff like that everything would be much more straight forward. Dont beat yourself up over it.

x

 

[mrscookie]

Hope your ok sweetie, and feel better after your rant. You answered your question yourself..
''But why!!! do lads have to be fucking pricks that wreck everything''
Because lads are lads... boys... whatever you will call them, they are not quite men yet.. but they will be one day. I hope your ok sweet xxx