Really need help ladies.. please =(

[kitjos]

Hi all. This is going to be quite a depressing tread so im sorry, but im so depressed... i just .. dont know what to do anymore.
Ive been working as a dental nurse for a private practice for approx 3 years and loved the first year. After i qualified, things went down hill, the dentists were hard to work with and its getting worse up to today. Im so stressed out, i just cant cope anymore. Im getting married next friday, me and OH are TTC and just brought a 4 bed detached house, so i should be happy... but im polar opisite.
I have no idea how OH puts up with me atm, im hardly the person he fell in love with 5 years ago. Everyday i txt him saying how much i hate work, then i come home and just colapse in tears.
The only reason why im dragging my ass in everyday is because i will get good maternity pay at the end of it, but is that a big enough reason to stay? or should i be more conserned with my sanity?
There are loads of things i want to do in life, and careers i want to follow, but i seem stuck... and im asking you ladies for advice.

Please, please help. Im typing this 15mins before i have to go to work and im crying again, dont now how much longer i can do this.

xxx

 

[aly888]

If you are not happy hun then I would look to go elsewhere!!
Good maternity pay is not a good reason to stay.the last thing you want is to be pregnant on top of feeling this way about work.it wont be any good for you or your baby (when it happens)!!
Is it that you dont want to be a dental nurse anymore or that you dont want to work at that surgery anymore?have you looked at other surgeries in your area?!
Its not worth staying in a job you are not happy in hun.get out before it drives you insane

 

[lisacaton1980]

i agreee. i stayed in a job that I hated and it began to affect my relationship. if I had stayed there I don't think that we would have got married (more likely split up) and we def wouldn't have had our LO. i was constantly miserable and took it out on my poor OH.

 

[kitjos]

Thankyou both for your reply's, im glad ive go your opinions. I dont mind dental nursing as a job, but wouldnt select it as a 'career'.
Ill talk to OH tonight and see what he things... Im never going to get pregnant if im stressed over the hill right?

Thanks again

 

[ginab]

what you must do is imagine how you'd feel if you gave in your notice.. if you think you'd feel happy/relieved... there's your answer.

There are plenty of jobs you can be doing which you enjoy Im sure you OH wants you to be happy too so do yourself and him a favour and get out of there before you get yourself too low. life is too short to be doing things that make you unhappy!!