really want this girl..help!!

[stevon111]

Hey people!

i really need some advice or just the plain honest truth... ive been single for 2 years more or less now and ive always liked this 1 girl ..we rarely ever really talked since me and my X split up 2 years ago (my X hates her) .. i decided at new year to text her being honest saying that i still thought about her often and asked her how she was doing etc.... her messages have been really short back saying along the lines of... have you been thinking of me? and... good things i hope ...which i replyed that yeah its always been good things.... but she just seems to stop texting and each time i text her first i get a responce back but they are always short and nothing seems to be coming from it.... i then went on facebook to add her and noticed she has a BF and i text her straight away appolagising for my messages saying i still thought of her and have feelings there to which she replyed that it was fine and not to think like that and she mentioned that she would text me later (last night) as she said her and her BF were going through a bad patch at the moment and she would tell me about it later on...............
she didnt text back later that night and i just dont know what to do....i would love to build a friendship there and prove to her im a really good person compared to what i used to be like when i was younger where she liked me but we were not in a relationship but i left her for my X partner.

im just looking for some advice or honesty here becouse i have said what i had to say but have not recived anything back really and she just doesnt seem to be interested in making anything of it.
ive tryed to stay in contact with her numberous times in the past becouse i just dont feel like i can let go and seems that i just keep trying to get into a friendship with her every 6-7 months but fail

 

[fairydust87]

I think shes confused at the minute. Shes going through a hard time with her bf and you telling her how you feel is probaby making her even more confused. She doesnt want to be hurt by you again and maybe doesnt want the baby mama drama (if your ex hates her). I would send her another text saying your sorry if you came across forceful but you really like her and want the oppertunity to show her you have changed. Let her know the balls in her court then leave it to her. She might respond she might not but please dont pin all your hopes on her. There are other girls oit there willing to give you a chance. Just give her space. If you were meant to be then you will xx

 

[omfgski]

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[Jade--x]

^^ I agree with this.

The fact she has a boyfriend anyway I think you should keep your distance nothing good ever comes of trying to be friends with someone you have feelings for and seeing them be with someone else. You're just setting yourself up for a very hard and painful fall.

 

[KayBea]

i would walk away if im totally honest..


xx