REALLY??!! why would you say that?

[hopefull85]

my so called best friend who is pregnant with her 2nd ( not going to get into all that) but anyways she tried telling me that she knows what im going through all because she has abnormal periods. hmmm really you have a 3 yr old and pregnant with another yet you know what i am going through. she said that to me because we were on that subjuect and i was trying to tell her that i have to take provera to bring on my period and then clomid to ovulate and she was like "yeah well i dont ever know when im ovulating so i know what its like" WHAT!!!?? NO YOU DONT KNOW!!!!!!!! so im done talking to her. not just because of that but she doesnt call, text, IM on Facebook, etc. Its always me putting forth that effort.

Im just tired of feeling like my feelings dont matter because no one wants to hear or see anything so depressing. im to the point where i dont care anymore. maybe if some people around me would just switch places with me just for 24 hours they will truely understand.

Im going to start saying whats on my mind and not worry about who's feelings i hurt. Im past the point of depression and now im just angry

 

[greeneyes0279]

 

[Trekkie1]

Hello, sorry to hear your friend is being so inconsiderate. My best friend is really selfish too, I guess people just don't understand unless they know what it's like to struggle to get pregnant. How long have you been trying for? I've been trying for nearly two years and it's driving me insaine, nothing in life feels happy or good anymore. If you'd like to chat sometime PM me and we can talk in private. In the meantime keep smiling, one day we'll hold our beautiful babies in our arms! XxxX

 

[hopefull85]

Hello, sorry to hear your friend is being so inconsiderate. My best friend is really selfish too, I guess people just don't understand unless they know what it's like to struggle to get pregnant. How long have you been trying for? I've been trying for nearly two years and it's driving me insaine, nothing in life feels happy or good anymore. If you'd like to chat sometime PM me and we can talk in private. In the meantime keep smiling, one day we'll hold our beautiful babies in our arms! XxxX

we have been trying for 5 years i have never had a BFP. im in the two week wait from my first round of clomid. at this moment i feel that its just another one of those times where when i test it will be another BFN.

 

[Kimiw]

Hello, sorry to hear your friend is being so inconsiderate. My best friend is really selfish too, I guess people just don't understand unless they know what it's like to struggle to get pregnant. How long have you been trying for? I've been trying for nearly two years and it's driving me insaine, nothing in life feels happy or good anymore. If you'd like to chat sometime PM me and we can talk in private. In the meantime keep smiling, one day we'll hold our beautiful babies in our arms! XxxX

we have been trying for 5 years i have never had a BFP. im in the two week wait from my first round of clomid. at this moment i feel that its just another one of those times where when i test it will be another BFN.

Oh hun I am sorry, I know exactally how you feel, DH and I have tried for 6 years. My second round of clomid worked but the pregnancy didn't stick...so here I am trying again! I hope that this round works for you, it is so hard to deal with people who say they understand what you are going through when they really don't. Your friend O's on her own, you don't, she has periods on her own, you don't, she has a kid and another one on the way, you don't! I don't get why people say they understand when they just DON'T.

I had my best friend tell me she understood, (she has 3 kids and had 5 pregnancies, one miscarriage and 1 baby pass at 6 months old from sudden infant death). She claims she understands my jealousy when it comes to other pregnant women because she feels the same way about women who have baby girls?! She wanted a girl and all she got was boys so therefore she "understands" um, NO! I don't get people, I really don't!

 

[Trekkie1]

I'm sure your time will come. I will keep hoping for good news for you soon. It is so hard when people don't understand but that's why we're all here. Don't forget PM me anytime and we can chat! Lots of love xxx