Recurrent miscarriages :( :(

[xnmd1]

Im at hospital now to get blood work to officially confirm my second miscarriage in a row. Which is actually suspected to be three miscarriages but nothing official to confirm the third one. I also went ibto labour with my son at 26 weeks five yrs ago now.Something is definitely wrong with me. I cant keep any babyss. Im so upset.. ive been referred to a specialist for testing . It will be a couple months before I see someone though. My boyfriend is being a complete ass saying i probably never was pregnant and got a false positive . Im so mad at him you could see the lines clear as day. My HGC levels should be back in a couple hours

 

[ChinaGirl]

I'm so sorry! How heartbreaking to have to deal with loss after loss. I'm glad that you'll be seeing a specialist, and hopefully getting some concrete answers soon. The not knowing what's wrong is a special kind of torture.

 

[laughingduck]

Im so sorry to hear . Your bf is probably just saying what he thinks will make you feel better (even if it doesnt )

That is tough you have to wait a couple months to see someone! I hope they figure out the problem and you carry your next pregnancy to term.

 

[sweetmere]

I'm so sorry

I had someone say that about me, although it wasn't a boyfriend. It's terrible. He should know better. Maybe he is in shock, too??

 

[TinyLynne]

I'm sorry for your losses. And I completely believe you, I can't imagine having someone tell me that mine weren't real.

I'm waiting on a call today to confirm that I am having my 3rd chemical pregnancy. I have a tiny seed of hope that somehow my numbers are going up, but logic tells me that it hasn't (verrrrrry low to begin with at 12dpo , my lines went away on hpts and betas less than 10, just like before)

I too am being referred to an infertility specialist, I've been spending the last day writing down questions on different things I've read that have worked for people etc. hopefully our specialists work for both of us. Good luck, and sorry again that you have to deal with this.

 

[xnmd1]

Thanks .. my beta was only a 6 so definitely another loss I guess itll be about two months before i see someone. Have you read about sticky blood? Im wondering if thats what I have . And maybe taking baby asprin would help. Im just so broken down now. Had a BFN 20 months in a row and then two BFPS back to back only to have them both stolen away i had completely convinced myself the first one was bad luck and it was meant to be this time but I was wrong.

 

[TinyLynne]

I hate being diagnosed with 'bad luck' after my second, my regular doctor had me tested for easy things like thyroid and the clotting disorders you are mentioning. If you can't get an OB to do them, see if a regular Dr can. Sorry for your loss, I'm waiting on my OB to call with my results too :/ it's no fun.