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On Friday the 19th in the evening I started spotting, more than just a little bit, so I went to the ER. At this time the gestational sac measured 4 weeks 6 days according to the ultrasound which I believe to be correct. I was not cramping. ER doc said it was extremely early to tell anything at that time since my cervix was closed and the ultrasound showed an empty gestational sac. My HCG level was 1742.

On Monday I went to my OB for follow-up. Still spotting, no cramping. The NP said my cervix was still closed and there was an irritated spot on my cervix which could explain the spotting. They did another HCG check, so almost 3 days since the 1st one. My numbers were either 2598 or 2958. I heard two numbers... Still, either way my numbers did not double over almost a 3 day period. So they scheduled a follow-up ultrasound for Wednesday the 24th.

On Wednesday the ultrasound showed an empty gestational sac measuring 5w 1d and I was told I am going to miscarry. The words were never said but clearly this would be considered a blighted ovum. I decided to go to my family practice Dr. that evening for another HCG check, so this would be a 2 day spacing. My numbers were 4082. Again not doubled.

I am really not holding on to hope anymore. But I do have a few things that make me hold off a D&C.

1) I have a retroverted uterus, and not by a little bit. It is quite a bit retroverted. I have read this can make it extremely hard to see anything in a gestational sac before 8 or 9 weeks. It is like looking for a dot on a paper from a parallel view. The Dr. never even looked at my stuff. The U/S tech spent less than 5 minutes doing the U/S and told the Dr. the results.

2) I have read that if you have two ultrasound technicians measure the same gestational sac they can be off by as much as 20% in their measurements from each other.

Fast forward to today. I am barely spotting. Still no cramping. I think I have enough bad signs to indicate that this is likely a blighted ovum. HCG rising but not doubling (normal with a blighted ovum), sac didn't grow enough, and nothing seen in the sac. It is tough to hold out hope with these indicators. I think I may be out, sigh.

I do have 3 wonderful children and I count my blessings for them. We would like one more still. So when my husband is done with his military training and is back in 5 months we will try again.
 
I'm so sorry for all your struggles. I hope things work out. Hang in there hun. I'll be thinking of you.
 
Sorry you are going through this :hugs: Personally i would wait, its still very early and given your history itof retroverted uterus it might make you feel more at ease.
 
At my scan at 6 weeks there was nothing in the sac I'm now 30 weeks!

I have been in your position though I wasn't spotting with my blighted ovum but at scans the sac was growing but no baby they never tested my levels though anyway I didn't opt for a d&c due to the fact that I read so much on the Internet about them getting it wrong I wanted to just wait and see then when I should of been 12 weeks I started bleeding was the worst mc ever my cervix didn't open to let things come out I collapsed at home was rushed to hospital and finally after losing 4 pints of blood they rushed me to theatre for emergency d&c had I not of had that I would be dead!! Bleeding during pregnancy can be common I had a massive bleed with this baby at 16 weeks and they told me it looked like my waters had broken and that they had never seen anyone bleed so much and the baby be ok so I fretted all night until the next afternoon when they scanned me to fine my little dude jumping all over

Have you went ahead with the d&c already?
 

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