Hi all, Need a bit of advice. My husband and I have been trying to start a family for 18 months now and nothing is happening! I think we need to get checked out by the doctor but my husband is really reluctant to have this done as he doesn't think we have a problem. I'm really struggling at the moment as 3 of my friends have recently announced they are adding to their families and I'm finding it difficult to be happy for them! Has any one else managed to persuade their partner to go for testing and how did you do it? Also how do you try not to be jealous when other people are getting what you want?