Room for another? :D

[Kyliem87]

Well here I am, single after finding out my OH cheated on me when our daughter was "about" 3 months old. Cause "it was less effort than putting the problems right in our relationship" excellent huh.

He's coming round tonight to see LO and he seems to think him staying a couple of days will "make me realise what I'm missing about him" but I KNOW what I'm 'missing' - apart from cheating he was an amazing boyfriend and daddy. He would help clean around the house, cook, wash dishes, give me lie ins, feed LO, bath her and put her to bed when he got in from work (all his choice). So I KNOW what he is capable of. But he's also a cheat. And it makes me mad, angry, feel sick etc. I will NOT be a mug again!

So that's my history and why I'm single. I'm 24, LO is 6months old and I'll be returning to work in January. Pleased to meet you all

 

[Jennifurball]

I am sorry to hear that.

 

[Ersurgeongirl]

Welcome! That's the same reason why I left my ex... I believe once a cheater always a cheater... Nd that if he truly loved me and LO he wouldn't have cheated to begin with... It's the cowardly way out

 

[Lemonflower]

Welcome

 

[fl00b]

eugh nothing worse than a cheater! you can do so much better hun!

welcome though, i know it's not a nice part of the section to be in but there are some lovely girls in this forum!

 

[Mummy1995]

Welcome hun! Yes definitely dont be fooled by him! If he really loved you that much, he wouldn't have cheated and would have done everything possible to make your relationship work. He'd have put in all that hard 'effort' x

 

[Cazamatazaaa]

Hey hunny!
Welcome and I love how strong you are! You are definately better off without him, if hes done it once, he will do it again because he knows he can get away with it!

Im nearly 24, with 2 amazing kids! if u ever want to chat inbox me