Rude comments at school

[Kate1993]

So I was at school and I heard to guys in my math class talking and I heard one mention me and that "at least we can't get her pregnant right now" and "her belly looks so disgusting" blah blah mean stuff like that): has anyone else heard stuff like that? I mean it just made me sad and angry..

 

[teenmommy15]

no one has ever said anything rude to me and i havent heard anyone say anything to me either but doctors have been rude once or twice and teachers sometimes say dumb stuff you have put them in their place or they'll keep saying things about you

 

[Kate1993]

They didn't say it to me and I don't think they know I heard. But like I like this bump, it makes me feel sexy but they are meanies

 

[teenmommy15]

yeah their just jerks and it doesnt matter what they think

 

[Kate1993]

But it's like the first time I have actually heard stuff like this soo..

 

[teenmommy15]

Yeah but their stupid boys and as long as you like your bump who cares what they say just think about how happy your LO makes you

 

[lizmageeful]

It hurts the first time people say it, and then you kinda get used to it. ive actually had some people who hated on my bump at first come around and actually come to like it and compliment me on it... ahahah. You just kinda have to own it.

 

[xx~Lor~xx]

You should have turned round and said something to them!! They would have been so embarrassed, and perhaps it would have taught them not to be so horrible.

Sorry you had to listen to someone that immature, I haven't heard anything directly but I've had lots of strangers whispering and pointing at me. I'm a young mum, and look younger than I am, about to have my third child, so unfortunately pointing and whispering comes with the territory!!

 

[Feff]

I got people in college pointing and staring at me, like literally I could see them say to their friends 'that's her, that's the one who's pregnant!' And literally pointing at me I've left college now because I'm 34 weeks but you just have to try and ignore it, or think of a witty comeback lol! It's horrible I know, but you just have to get used to it and know that people will be nasty but you have to focus on your LO

 

[zilla]

Everyone will always find something to comment on, or someone to make comments about - I found it was just part of school!
They'll probably have forgotten about it by tomorrow & will have moved on to the next person.